**Edit: I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who took the time and effort (both me & my wife) into creating this thread. It really has been helpful, particularly those that have given advice on

what they would do differently. !!!(!!!) "I think were pretty well-behaved parents," one dad wrote in a comment below this post... "We both want our kids locked away for life." edit: Thank goodness there are some moderation options available here. Well take any suggestions of changing our approach and ways of parenting from here forward. < |eols||>