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4mo ago

Online Fuck Buddy?

Has anyone here have/had an online fuck buddy? How was your set up? What are the things that you usually do? I want to be in one but I just dont know how to start. I am a 25 M and have a lot of libido in my body lol.

If you are also looking for one… DM me and let’s make it happen. X

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Not here, but Reddit
I have met people from Reddit and had a blast
One was never going to be a proper relationship. We cared about each other, but life simply didn't allow us the luxury of things working out. I'll forever be grateful to her for what we had though. It was transformative for me, and played a huge part in me being the man I am today
And, well... I'm engaged now. To the most wonderful woman in the world, and we also met via Reddit
Our story is rather funny and unconventional, but we're deeply in love, and we're both so happy it hurts from smiling so much all the time
It's funny how things go sometimes!
- This is such an amazing reply. Congratulations on your engagement!
  
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  Nah, I'm just kidding
  We're actually a legit couple
  There's some of our content on my redgifs, but we just enjoy making people happy (and horny)
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My experience: Yes, This was in the days of craiglist personals, searched for meetups for the city i was heading to a week prior. Was surprised she responded. I wasn't ready (Good surprise) for the BBW I met in person. It ended up being a nice vacation for the week i was there. Lost contact due to petty miscommunication for almost a decade, all effort to reconnect was in futility.
Last summer, I went to check my old email account i used for such connections back then, not sure what I ws looking for, there it was! her email, phone and stuff i need. I sent an email re-introducing myself, I wasn't expecting any response. Within 24 hours i got her reply, comms regained. It was a good feeling no lie. Scheduling on my part has been a bit hard, but i'd try to reconnect with her probably late summer or fall. Downside: Her texting skill is Dry like the sahara (she oes this intentionally, she's brat-ish!), but she's wholesome In-person. Would update if anything change.
Suggestion: Reddit r4r and variations of that sub (local and global sub) is a good place to start. Don't half ass your post, review success stories, this should give you an idea of how to write your prompt. It's a numbers game for guys compared to the ladies. Keep the post up, you would defo get someone, also brace up for rejections and flaky individual and spammy folks. Good Luck!
- Thanks for sharing!
Like real fucking or just ERP over text/voice chat?
- Just ERP
Not really. Longest I had was about 3 days of some very weird erp. Would not work out with my job and everything.
- Whats an erp?
  
  ERP in this context likely stands for Erotic Role-playing.
BF says yes in the right situation, like during group sex. But not otherwise.
- Is this something like an open relationship?

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