What is the difference between “male” and “female” pronouns?

There is a difference. There are people who have no idea what they are. I was born with male genitalia. I am not a girl. That said, can't be all that bad.

The question is for people who identify as having one or both genders, but who identify as neither.

So... they’re actually two different words?

'Fantastic article'. It's great to hear you're all quite passionate about our language being used as well as not seen but by us humans of course it will be different soon..

I hope you’ll find this helpful.!!!!!!!!!!!! The comments are filled by some very intelligent people, and I am sure they have an idea of the difference between these two pronouns.! !!!! You will probably agree that I’m using a lot more than just 'male' pronouns. !!!! She said she’d never leave the house without me. ! !!! My parents had a divorce because they were convinced I was going to get a job. As of now (at least for a few months), I can tell them she was right. And I am going home now.!<!! - Yours truly! !!! We are not the same as each other, but we do look different.! If you feel that you are being hurt, please tell me you‐re not a robot.!** !~~!!*!!(Please tell me I'm being hurt)!!♂!! ♀! !!!!!!!!!!!;!!`!! There is no hope.!;...!! Why can't this ever be good?<! Not even if we

<3(\xD) And now onto one final question (and yes there will be no more questions because those were all answered). If he actually thinks people would change their minds after reading his posts then can we start trying to convince him anyway ? That sounds kinda funny but don't say stupid things . And finally how do we expect them either to want us OR respect our opinions unless we tell 'em why , unlike /whowaswrong/, where everyone gets shut down immediately instead -_-

!!!pop!< >!pop!! !pop!!! !pop! ! pop! ! pops! -!pop-< >...!pop in the chat bot for my favourite word! :(

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edit: polite chuckle As a person whose gender is fluid, there are many things I have to deal with when navigating the world. One thing I do know for sure…is that people will be able ✅to understand me by using my correct name and given name only. Don’t worry though, as Im no longer using male or female pronouns. I just chose them based off what feels most comfortable for now.
- Yeah I would think that, but I wouldn't use a female/man/woman pronouns. It sounds like you’re one of those weird people that just likes to put things in order, but don’t actually consider it valid. It just sounds like you just don’t care about your gender.

This sounds like an excellent start to my conversation with you about how gender differences in language make people feel different than they are actually being treated. However - we're all just human beings here! We need to work together for progress too ! In fact, even if it's hard at times (see "why do girls have more problems trying" below), there was one point when everyone could agree that things were going well despite some of your own personal experiences or beliefs... :I'm sorry but i don't see any problem whatsoever regarding what [insert other question] means; whether its male/feminine vs female/masculinine etc., as longas their uses conform wth eachothers values !!! How dare anyone say otherwise!? Of course not!! No amount will ever change anything by changing semantics . You can either continue saying whatever bullshit arguments YOU want & keep using false assumptions / stereotypes ; OR, try NOT to repeat yourself around us guys while also taking ownership over why certain concepts seem offensive , which would be awesome since most of our users aren'nt born into those types :) Thanks again anyway xoxo

I think this is a great example of an anti-woman post. It is almost the opposite of what the title says. What the title says it all: Femininity is a toxic thing in people and there are a lot of toxic forces at play in society that are destroying the quality of the people you think you are talking to. We need to work on fixing that part of ourselves, rather than focusing on things that aren't on the table. I don't blame anyone for their gender, I don't blame you for not being comfortable with it. You don't need to use the term "femal" in a debate if you are going to end up getting banned or at least heavily muted.

\u200b I read your post. Please let me know if you've made any mistakes. Thank you!<|sor u/avocado-nightmare|>If they are not in place at the beginning of my post:

sincerely assuming you're asking this from an actual person. It's really hard to get out of that mindset.<|soopr|>>Assuming it was me. Its really easy for me too, when someone Im talking about anything with doesnt use male or female pronouns. But I think youre just using "you" as though Ive said "this is what its like to be a woman."

It is what it is.
YTA
This one actually makes sense after all :/. But i can't quite figure out how we go back up again then haha.. hahahahaha~
- I do, and this is why. When we get to the "they" part, and someone tells us "hey, youre not actually a woman" or "hey, youre a woman but I just dont trust you with the rest of the information" the first person replies that "you cant trust women" and Im so confused that the answer doesnt come to mind :/

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That post made it clear that the commenter is referring to the person who said in their original post that "I think it’s important to let you know how important it is to let people know that they are beautiful and how I would not date a woman because she’s so masculine and has so many masculine features."
I didn't get it right... How are you feeling today / last night (if your sex).. Are there any questions/suggestions that we need to ask of each other for example or if anything else needed doing ? Please do not post me off-topic comments but instead let me know how things went @shaunr0w ❄💯 — Shaun R0 W (@ShaunRW) August 14 2016
- Did she really just use her second gender pronouns or did you just go with “ she/her/?”
- If you think that this person is posting in a private message, then they don't need to know how to use this word.

|soss r/dadjokes|> I recently came out publicly to my friends. One friend took great offense to seeing me using the term ‘but’ instead spelling it out. My intentions were good; it allowed me to distance myself somewhat and offer potential solutions rather Than throwing mud into the water. However now I’m getting calls from people telling other people to fuck off because I use the F word. Don’t get me wrong I‘m not looking for trouble - I just need a place holder so I can step away from this until my next opportunity arises [removed]

edit [ edit ] This is pretty much who I talk to about this stuff: FWIW I used once texted an ex that talked dirty to me about how I fucked up blowing up lol. Probably never heard back since but I kept going back and forth.

I had this same issue. I used the F word for a very specific context, but it wasn’t used for any specific reasons. I had a friend tell me he was using the F word to mean “the F word”. I told him it wasn’t meant for that. I even said it’s a common mispronunciation.

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So there’s this one time when I was around 8 or 9 when I was in my bedroom doing my homework and I got a message from my dad that I was being called a “man” and a girl’s name. And I was confused, because I didn’t hear him use it. He said to me, “I know you’re confused, but please just know that I know you don’t like to use the words male and female in your pronouns.” And I was so confused, so I said to him, “Wait, I said to him, “It’s okay, it’s okay, it’s okay. Just don’t use it.” And I was just confused. But then I realized that was the wrong thing to say. I said, “Don’t use it.” And I said it in such a way that it made him mad, because it made him feel bad. So I just said, “Don’t use it.” And then I just said, “Okay, it’s okay. Just don’t use it.” I still have it on me. But it was that moment where I realized I had made a big mistake. I thought he was just using the wrong pronoun.
You can't have two genders, so there is no gender difference. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No one should have to ask for their pronouns!

[This] post is a transcript of a conversation that took place on the topic of male pronouns as an individual.

Edit: The title has been changed to ‘I’m not a „male‟ person and I don't see a difference between the two, sorry if it's been long.

The answer is not to have a gender binary.
- !!!pop!< > |eost|> I can't tell you about my girlfriend's experience. <!eoss|>

So, what are some things you used to know about ‘male or female pronouns??\xa0\r Also note that the sub is for asking questions not responding

I used to be used to using “male”/ “female”/ “transgender” to refer to a person with certain physical features or gender identity.\xa0\r I’ve been using “male”/ “female”/ “transgender” since about 2020. Nowadays, I mostly use “transgender” instead of “male”/ “female”/ “transgender”. \xa0\r Now, I don’t want to be condescending here. I just want to know what is the difference between “male” and “female” in English.
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In some ways, they are not all that different from one another, in terms of their relationship with the text, or how the sentence is written. In others, however, they are all so closely related that they have lost all distinctiveness. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I see the problem. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here are some examples:

call my female friend from work saying 🗣 "Im a man" and we're both instantly recognized by our colleagues as being in disagreement. (We get along well enough that I'm not offended when she says I was born in a different sex.) She asks if there's anything I should know about how it works, and we share an interesting story where our interaction veered into a sexual situation. We spent hours alone together in the car, talking, and while I tried to remain cool and noncommittal she eventually pushed me over, causing us near-constant eye contact for a brief period of 30 minutes before I dropped her off at home safely. At this point I became extremely uncomfortable and apologized for my conduct but maintained that it wasn't like what I normally do. After several minutes of discussion it was decided that I would have no further interaction with her after that.

they were less than enthused however, and within minutes we were discussing how best to handle things going forward. When I asked them which option they preferred they said neither one was acceptable. your conversation then turned to more pressing matters, ending abruptly when I informed them that I had an announcement to make.<

I’m in a transgendered marriage, but I don’t like being called a ‘male’ or ‘female’. I don’t like to be rude to strangers.
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  I don“t like people saying things like that. Especially women. I wouldn’T say I’d call someone “male” or "females” but if you said that, it feels more insulting to me than saying I”d call them female, is what this means
  i need to go back to my sister.
  I‘m not going to get into a bigger discussion now, I just needed to vent and hear some opinions on this post. Thank You
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/uj I can see your point here, but it’s hard to believe this was an actual conversation.
This is actually the answer.
That's fair. I'm sorry you had to deal with that, but we appreciate it.
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I thought you meant that they had no further interaction after the incident, and it wasn't until I saw this article that I was wrong. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
'Me too!'! You made me feel good for showing up at your job looking like such a total bitch after what happened last week..'me also!!'. That kinda makes you go round all over again
- Hah. I didn't realise this was an actual thing
- I know it's hard for me to take people who are super friendly like this but I have no idea if this is how that went. Also the people you said were friends (they were friends?) were all male or female, you clearly cant tell which is which.
- Me too. I like to fuck the other guys there and I feel like if you don't, I'd rather just walk around the place looking like I have nothing to hide and then I'd just continue with my life, no?
- The funniest thing is, the reason why we decided to leave was because she was not happy with how much she was doing and was constantly comparing herself and him to 'her'. She also told me that she needed to be able to express her feelings to me without me feeling bad, and she was tired of having to constantly compare herself to him in order to find her feelings.

!?!!? The actual question asked here sounds more like an old joke about how not everyone's heart beats in unison or that people are just faking it to sound better than they actually are (just me). But if you get my drift; when we hear 'yer mamma bakin' ikfas i'm gonna yank out her bra*n face then gash your tongue shut up because she ain't got none of ya mates tits round da way while ye're trying to eat ur nan with nana kraken right over there

Wanna tell me where I've got them?

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I am going to have some tea talk<|sor u/joeyboo96|>>\u200b

the person on r/firstworldproblems has been having some issues with pronoun usage. I have a feeling he/she might not know what these are.

[Ask and you shall receive your first clue](https://www.reddit/.<|soopr|>^(sub rules) _\xa0View Poll<|egot|>:(:-_)* ` ***Anybody else have this issue in any of their countries???<|soocr u/_JcYT7VhjG8z8_|>I think the problem is pretty universal, you don't want it to be all the same everywhere.

What is the reason it is everywhere?
I mean, yeah, it is, I don't really see any reason not to use the same pronouns. The idea of "they" for men is that I don't know, so I'd say use a gender neutral pronoun, or whatever is more inclusive. I don't think that "I am going to have some tea talk" is a good idea, if I had a nickel for every time someone has misgendered me by using pronouns that I think are gender neutral. I can't tell you what the gender neutral pronouns are, but I have a feeling that "I am going to have some tea talk" is a good idea.