The time I (M29) had my first time with another (M29)

You have an older, older brother.

That is definitely possible
- I'm sure that's possible. Just know that it's a common occurrence.
I was only 15. I had my first experience with a woman while at my uncle’s house and she was beautiful. I think it was a long time ago.
- Yup, I’m 28 now
- My first time with another woman was with a family friend who’s about my age, we were all in the same class, and we had to take turns and each had to wear a belt, my uncle got me the belt first because he was shorter, so I was wearing the belt. The entire class laughed at me and my uncle got even more embarrassed at the thought of it. We weren’t really close friends and we were always texting, talking, and sending each other memes. He asked me out, but I didn’t think it was a good idea at the time.
You’re not older than you should be?
- I think your brother is already there, though younger than you

This is probably the first time I’ve seen someone on r/youngpeople with their first time being this

This is what I was thinking, "What the f*ck is this supposed to be?"
- This was me trying to catch up. I’m 31 and was just told my bf is talking about his first time. He asked me a bunch of questions but I think it's pretty obvious it’s not going to be a good thing
I am an ex-M29, and my first time with someone else was in college when I was 25, and I got married at 30. I was always on Tinder and just liked to find someone else’s profile and message them, I don’t know if they are married or not but I think that was my first time with another person. I’m still married to a man I met on a dating app. I like to think I have a good first date, and I’m just trying to share with someone that I have known for a long time. I do know that sometimes people find it strange, but it’s just part of the fun of being on a date and seeing someone new. I can always tell if something is off just by looking at them, so it’s important to have a professional eye for this stuff. I have been with a lot of people, but never had a first date with a girl that wasn’t my ex and I still feel weird about it. I just have no clue what happened.
- I'm 25. Never had a first date with anyone that wasn't my first, but I would say I have been lucky that they weren't my first, at least at the start, since my first kiss was with someone in a club that was younger than me.
- I feel like it could be the same for a lot of other people in this situation. I think that a lot of people that have experienced it just don't realize it’s really normal to be in a relationship. I’m in my late 40s and have dated a bunch of people in that time, and all of them are people that I could consider friends. They all seem to have a healthy age difference, but I feel like I’m always the one who doesn’t really talk to the girl they like, so I don’t feel comfortable around them at all. It doesn’t really make sense to me how it could be a coincidence. I feel like there are so many variables at play. I am just trying to talk about this, maybe try to share it, or ask a guy I was with about how it feels like, or someone that's in the same boat. I feel like maybe there might be a lot more answers on here that topic. !

Yeah. You should get HRT, especially if you're over a decade older. Not sure if it would help you pass but if you're older I can recommend a good, affordable surgeon.

Well that is the doctor I'd go to. I'm about 30, so that's about 5 years at that doctor.
- I’m 22. My first doctor was actually an elderly woman. She’s the one who started me on hormones.
- I had a similar experience a few weeks ago
I did that for my mom and she passed away before I got to work, so it worked out.
- Haha I thought it was hilarious