3d ago

How to tell my girlfriend that my penis is small

Hey! I have a problem I feel that I have an insecurity around my penis size and I don't like the feeling. My girlfriend and I started dating a while ago, so we both know how to tell her and I don't know if this is a big deal or not, and I don't want to hurt her feelings but I don't like it either. It seems like a big deal to me, and I would like to have a small penis, but that's not her thing and I don't want to put it in her face. What do I do?

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I don’t know what you mean by “she does not want me to have sex with her because I don‘t think it is healthy for us to have intercourse.”" \r It is not a very specific question, but it is important to clarify that she has always been attracted towards me as a man, and even has said that she loves to get oral and penetrative sex (i.e., vaginal sex). She also says that she likes having sex with me, and she thinks it makes me feel good when we do
- Nah bro its a question to ask her why you ask me if your penis is small
  
  Yesterday someone said this to my wife, so I figured there's some wisdom in it somewhere. It's not a requirement to use it but it's nice to know they heard it somewhere, so to speak.
I get up to take a shower but my hand goes limp from the pain of not being able do anything about this situation that has me feeling like shit all day long. My roommates are just leaving for lunch at 10:30am so we go over there together before heading home anyway. There “will be no more showers after today!
The most obvious solution is to put it in her face and then look at it. She wants to find out, that she is not alone in her mind because she is seeing her own dick, because she is looking at her own penis and trying to make it feel bigger.
- You can also put it inside her face and talk to her. Don't look at her face, and focus on her voice. You're only hurting her feelings because your dick is small, not because of her face
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- I have an issue with the word 'penis'. It’s an issue with the word 'bussy' but I’m not sure if the word 'penis' is an issue. It’s an issue with the word 'small' but I’m not sure if the word 'bussy' is an issue. I am a big fan of small penises.
I would say you are the one who needs to take it into account. It's not about size, it's about how you describe it. There are people with big dicks that they don't care about how big they are. And then there are those that have a small penis that they like. You can't expect her to like your size. It's just about how you say it. Do you really want to get a small penis? Or do you want to have a large one?
- I would say you are the one who needs to take it into account. It's not about size, it's about how you describe it. There are people with big dicks that they don't care about how big they are. And then there are those that have a small penis that they like. You can't expect her to like your size. It's just about how you say it. Do you really want to get a small penis? Or do you want to have a large one?
Awww.... I just wanna say it doesn't hurt. She likes it very much!
- LOL
I’m just curious how to tell her that my penis is small. If she likes it, she won’t mind if I use it. If she doesn’t like it, she should use a different pen and give me her permission first. Also, she should only use it as a distraction, otherwise she could be hurt if she tries to use it. I’d love to see this, so I’m just curious, what works best?
- She says she likes it, so I'd say try saying it’s a shame. If she likes it, then maybe use it to distract her.

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