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  • Thanks for the advice, I'll definitely look into it. My mental health is somewhat sub par at the moment so I'm not sure how soon I'll be comfortable with being myself in a public setting. So I think the plan as it stands is boymod until I start getting correctly gendered. It's not like I live in a super conservative city or anything, but I have a fair bit of baggage from my early years that needs to be dealt with. I don't have a burning need for society to accept who I am, I just want to feel like I belong in my own skin and accept myself. Or rather that's the most important thing for me.

  • Takk for det! Ja selvfølgelig er det best å gjør det gjennom riksen. Og Æ mener at det blir ganske greit på utredningstimer. Æ vet hva de leter etter. Æ er ganske kjent med icd10.

    Men det er iallfall godt å vite at det finnes andre muligheter.

  • Det faktisk hjelper ganske mye, takk! Det er en senter som spesialiserer i kjønnsinkongruens i byen der Æ bor men det er kun til folk som er mye yngre enn mæ. Så det ser ut at det må enten skje via Riks eller en annen lit mer uoffisiell måte. vet du hvor ulovlig det er å importere pillene? Er det sånn at pakken blir stoppet og ikke levert eller blir det noe straff? Æ er ikke helt klar over hva loven sier om det.

  • You're right of course. I do have a lot of fear and anxiety around it. I grew up in a very unforgiving place where people would find any difference at all to pin the bullying on. So I learned to keep any thoughts to myself and not really express myself or let anyone in. So exposing myself in any way seems overwhelming. But, yes it's just a product of the conformist environment in which I grew up.

  • Thanks for the link. And sharing your story. It's very encouraging. I'm actually pretty sure my partner is demi as well I'm just worried her feelings for me would change if I do. As for clothes, I already have plenty of flannel shirts 😂 they'd just look better on me with a more feminine figure. Actually what I'd be wearing would only be minimally different from what I'm wearing now (I think). My partner likes it when I role my sleeves up so I'd be foolish to not keep that.

  • Well I've not played d&d but i know that i always play as a female character in computer games unless there isn't a choice. But then I preferentially play the games with female protagonists. I'm really happy with the new hazelight game split fiction, because both the characters are female. (my partner always insists on playing the female character in it takes 2).

  • I have thick curly hair and back when i kept it long i would wash out the conditioner by submerging my head underwater and shaking it loose. Then shake off like a dog and lie facing the ceiling with my head hanging off the end of the bed until it drip/air dried. It gave me volume and neat little ringlets. Of course I was convinced I was a boy so I didn't necessarily appreciate it as much as I should have.