Its real simple, if an athlete goes in with a negative mindset “i suck, my team sucks, these other guys are gods” chances are he’s going to be shit on his performance. But if he trains with purpose, “Im going to get better to be the best that i can be and show the world what i can accomplish” or tells himself “yes Im good but i could be better, let’s work on getting better” chances are by the time he shows up the game he’s already got a winners mindset. Same goes in the office, if you’re depressed about deadlines and profit and spend the smoozing at the bar telling the bartender your woes then you go home and unleash your bs on the wife, she argues back, calls you a loser ect. Guess what; chances are you’re going to fail and be known as a loser, a quitter and soon find yourself collecting the shit at your desk in a box heading home to a toxic environment. But if you do your research, follow up on leads, follow the next big payday, go home with positive news about your progress to the wife or gf or whatever, fuck it could be your fucking hamster, who cares right, chances are you’ll at least perform better, yielding better results, be known as a winner and a leader that people want to network with and that’s how opportunities are found and success is made. This is the difference between role models of success and walking living corpses that get buried before they croak.
Well spoken, i blame myself more than anything for my first marriage. I married the first girl that put out basically and it was a huge mistake. Although i learned valuable lessons along the way like working hard to support a home and such we were never really meant for each other. Verbal abuse was constant and the environment toxic, eventually leading to cheating with others on both sides although she started it. Looking back i would’ve got to know her better instead of first date sex but then again i was 19 and it seemed like an awesome deal at the time. I just wished that 13-14 years weren’t wasted on that but hey you live and learn. After leaving i found myself scared because im although i desire love i wasn’t sure if i could go through it again so i slept around. This was a mistake as it didn’t make me happier and i don’t look back in awe of any of it. I’m not sure if ill find “true love” if I’m even capable of it, or if I’m even capable of it and that’s what rattled me more than anything. I’m not perfect and no one is but add time goes on i see the flaws in myself and although i try to improve done things are innate. I need to work on my impulsive response more than anything and learn patience. So am i ready to move on after 3 and a half years, who knows. I’m ready mentally but an i ready to throw my flawed self at someone else…. That remains to be seen.
In conclusion i think I’ll try to find love again; but I’m nervous and scared.
Golden parachutes should be taxxed at 80% in my opinion cz they are usually unwarranted and follow great debacles controversy and failure. Im a independent leaning a little more right but even i recognize the corruption behind this practice. Sometimes imo the idea of government overreach can be a good thing. Also the golden parachutes once taxxed maybe a portion 50% goes in checks to the low level workers as compensation for the companies failed state
Something can be said About the amount of rapes taking place by migrants not only in uk but across Europe. Ignoring this fact is nothing more than living a lie you should be ashamed of. After ww2 it made sense for Europe to bring in tons of migrants because guess what, tons of young men died. Same in Americas Industrial Revolution, we’re over here needed tons of people in the factories and mills. But the current system of migration isn’t really beneficial for anyone involved, migrants suffer prejudice and abuses, locals feel forgotten by their governments and rent prices along with other goods soar do to demand. There are solutions but putting groups against each other while ignoring real issues like rape, increased cost of living and lack of job opportunities can’t be ignored. The other question i put forth is that after ww2 populations in Europe and their colonies were loyal to an idea of the country or the empire but today that doesn’t exist. Im not trying to shit on islam but a segment of it for certain is radicalized. And also there is no loyalty to European countries. Is a difficult situation for all involved imo
I’m almost one hour into a workout. After this it’s shower and then i get back to writing my novel. Ty for the words and when you get confident start small and build, even pushups on knees are something
I literally have not felt this way about a girl since high school, like that level of mystery and fun, you know what I mean, like I haven’t displayed this level of dorkiness in a while in regards to women
All the signs that she likes me are there. She has said to me to come back down and tell her more stories after laughing at all of my stories.. She is like 28 years old, maybe but constantly calls me, darling, and called me toots one time and then looked at me and smiled. Always looks me in the eye always smiling., I was in that town for 2 1/2 months on a business trip then I left for a month and came back and she was like oh I remember you and I was thinking I barely even fucking talked to you. She definitely has caught me checking her out and doesn’t seem to mind. I am taller than her so that’s a plus and the other day when I asked her how she was, she kind of leaned in across the counter, tilted her head down and then looked up smiling and said you know I’m hanging in there almost as if she was begging me to ask her out or something, but maybe I’m just delusional and fucking crazy
Thanks for the advice, ive been out of the dating scene for a while. I mean ive had my hook ups, but tinder is easy and beyond hookup i wasn’t interested at the time. Idk im 36 so im looking to settle down and have a real relationship. heart break sucks