Many years ago I was withy ex and he was "one of the good ones". Really nice man, and a good person. But he just did NOT do his fair share of things. His dad did nothing and mum did it all, so although he denied it, he expected the same.
He had to be screamed at repeatedly to do anything. He'd forget tasks because he made no effort whatsoever to try to remember them, and would NEVER put it right when he forgot. I would often literally sob and plead, saying how hurtful it was that he saw me as a servant. He just wouldn't do it.
I've never been able to fathom how so many men just sit and watch their partners doing it all. I just can't fathom treating a partner like that.
Lady Butterfly she/her @ LadyButterfly @lemmy.world 帖子 193评论 465加入于 4 mo. ago
Those are excellent facts! Thanks for sharing