Lady Butterfly she/her @ LadyButterfly @lemmy.world

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Thanks mate

Yes and it isn't asking a question its passing a judgement. It puts the ownership on the victim not the perp

Concur

Yep it's not for everyone. I love it for background when I'm lemmying

OK, it inspires hope in me so I'd say it fits the community rules. Maybe you should report it and let the mods decide 😊

My new vibrator arrived! Hurrah hurrah

Yes and abusive men often seem like they're just about to change. It's difficult because they make it so hard to leave, and leaving is the most dangerous time in domestic abuse

Just take the win haha

I think there may well be something but idk what. So I don't mess with the spirit world and would never do a ouija board or anything

I've permanently lost a blanket this way

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For those at work the news article is here.

This is a really sad case. Men like this target their victims carefully and often go for vulnerable people. It can be a grooming process, and they slowly build a cage round her so she can't get out. Her and her baby deserved better.

I think you make a really good point about men often not changing. Abusive men tend to be totally selfish and don't accept they're wrong, making them resistant to change. Dysfunctional men often just don't do the work they need to do to function well. Many men just ignore the issue and hope it goes away.

Patriarchy really damages men. Showing emotion and getting MH support is seen as weakness. Abusive men have unrealistic expectations so are never truly happy. It destroys so much.

Thanks we do sometimes miss them, please report the ones from men so we can tell the users

I really like Jen is Online she's really fun, positive and caring. She plays games I like to watch.

Vitasynth does really laid back streams and has a good group.

Beckachu does a big range of games, and she's got a good crew of followers.

I think she'd love that I do lot for charity and stuff. She'd love my house, hair and like lots of my clothes. She'd have mixed feelings about me not being in touch with my family.

Regarding my sexuality... I think she'd probably shriek that she's straight and hide under the duvet. So I don't think I'll mention that...

Hey noride thanks for your amusing comment! We're a women's only community so unless you are female/non binary please don't comment again 😊

Great thanks so much 😀

I have insomnia too so I feel for you, it's awful. How's your Sleep hygiene? Things like avoiding blue light (so no phones) and no caffeine after 2pmbreally help.

I also use a herbal roll on but steer well clear of lavender cos too much is a stimulant

I'd ask in !dadforaminute@lemmy.world They're great with questions like this

Looks good can I change page colour