Allow me to tell you my favorite Chinese fable
In the Warring States period, the state of Wu had invaded the state of Yue, and carried off its duke Guo Jian as a prisoner with them.
Guo Jian was held for three years by the state of Wu until he was released back to his home. When he returned, he started planning his revenge.
For seven years he ruled with benevolence and generosity, making a reputation as a wise and virtuous ruler. Accordingly, he assembled his loyal forces on the eight year and attacked Wu, swiftly beating them.
The king of Wu had to flee, but hurt as he was, fleeing on foot and alone, it was only a matter of time before the forces of Yue would catch up to him. Fearing the worst after running all night, he quickly sent ambassadors to Guo Jian when the morning came, begging for mercy.
The ambassadors reminded the duke of how he had been treated as a prisoner of Wu. That even though he was under their grasp, the king of Wu eventually allowed him to return home unscathed. Our king now asks to be granted the same fa