At the best, Pam's mods are modpack fodder: you install them, then edit out a lot of features, and tweak the rest. At the worst, they're bloat. And in plenty cases they're just fluff.
I think GT:NH is the only modpac i have played that makes pam's good as the vanilla mods are nerfed heavily incentivicing making the pam's more complex meals while the other tweak mods make so that you cant just eat one food all the time and having a varied diet gives bonuses
I prefer Farmer's Delight anyways since I like using Fabric and as far as I could tell last I checked Pam really hates Fabric for some reason? So I stick with mods that work on what I play.