I get that Palestine is trendy but most of us are super complicit in a much larger abuse.
The key difference as far as I can tell is that one would require us to make individual sacrifices while the other involves complicated geopolitics and requires zero personal effort to feel like we are "helping." Plus, the latter is trendy whereas admitting and talking about how we are morally culpable in one of the worst human rights abuses ever, well, that's just a buzzkill.
Total casualties are around 40k according to Hamas themselves, that includes insurgents and civilians. The conflict has been going on for 11 months. That is less than 4k casualties a month during a war in highly dense urban area and that number has been heavily dropping. For that kind of conflict that is rather low.
Yes. Every death is tragic. But there are worse atrocities and disasters happening in the world. The only difference is this one gets all the media attention and people believe it's much worse than it is because every death is examined under a microscope. Surprise, war is awful. Food prices in Palestine have gone up, not directly because there is a shortage, but because Hamas keeps stealing all the aid that is literally pouring in and forcing the Palestinian people to buy it from them so that they can keep funding their operations.
And yet this gets downvoted or dismissed when it's pointed out because it doesn't fit the narrative that every single Palestinian child is getting shot in the head personally by the US president.