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  • Today in class, we spoke about the whole male supremacy thing that's been going on in schools since the rise of Tik Tok. The government started an intervention about ten years ago on respectful relationships, and the evaluations on it are inconclusive - it's difficult to evaluate something that realistically can't be measured objectively. Students come from different backgrounds. We can only control what we expose them to in the classroom.

    So now I'm doing some thinking on what I can do in this area. Research ensues.

    • I gotta say, part of it speaks to entitled young men. 25 years ago when I was trying to get laid and struggling I looked at what I could improve about myself rather than blaming women for not being interested. If I could give 15 yo me some advice on the topic it would be to keep doing what you're doing. Treating women like people and being a good friend got me laid way more than I ever expected given my younger self's self-esteem. That and loving someone harder won't make them any more interested, take the no and move on.

      • Life lessons, wish I could tell my 15 year old self a few things as well.

  • America has been preying on my mind. I am getting more frightened for the people there each day.

    It is safe here in Aust at least. That I know.

    • My son and his wife and kid are now safe in Germany for which I thank various deities. USA is going to get worse before it gets better too imo. He mentioned in his last phone call that one of his neighbours went out to buy groceries, but came back with ammunition instead. And that's in a fairly civilised part of a fairly chill city a long way from MAGAland. That was the deciding factor that made him and his wife decide to get out asap. Granted, there's a military base there, and a lot of people who know how to NOT use guns, but still ... If the ordinary decent people are starting to behave like that, anything can happen.

      • The way trump maga is openly defying judges and the law scares me.

        The way they data mined the IRS and OPM is terrifying. They are getting info for a purpose and it's not a good purpose.

      • and happy your son and fam are safe now

        once the depression hits the US maga will be told who to blame , that scares me too

    • It’s terrifying, and I have a sinking feeling in my gut I don’t know how to describe. That feeling when something bad is happening, but it’s about to get much worse. Everyday is some new horror. Today the images of the Venezuelans. And Trump saying he was ‘being sarcastic’ when he said he would solve the Ukraine war in a day. Triggering because I have had narcissists in my life for a long time, and the whole ‘I’m not wrong, YOU’RE wrong’ gaslighting tactics used when ever they feel their status might be threatened is very real. It will not stop. Anyone who thinks they can ‘deal with’ or reason with Trump and his inner circle is dead wrong. They must have never had knowledge of this personality type. These people do not have any principles and don’t care about reason. They care only about power.

  • OMG! just discovered AuADHD might be the reason for my vertigo thing. Closing one eye massively helps not feel like the new stairs are DOOM awaiting. How fucking odd but awesome, yaaaar 🏴‍☠️

  • The 60 minutes bit on the CFMEU and ties to gangs was pretty interesting. As someone who has worked on sites for several years, it comes as no surprise.

    I really hope someone drops the hammer on the dodgy shit. Site culture needs a reboot, but that will take years and years.

  • Woof, think I'm going to end up paying a bit for slacking off so much on the weekend. Need to jam in a lot of work in due to a late/fumbled start this morning, but I was banking on having time to prep data for uni fieldwork as well, which I absolutely have to have ready to go out on Wednesday and had meant to do on the weekend... now looking a bit short on time for it all. I guess I can do it if I sat down and really put my mind to it over the next 48 hours. At least I'll be getting a decent wad of overtime this pay cycle

    E: also a bit bummed I have to cancel my psych session this week but between a haircut, dental appt (with no rebate - another task now to call insurance and ask why), 295 in uni fees, and grabbing lunch out during fieldwork days, there's not a lot left. plus I don't think I can handle an emotionally intense day this week.

    On Sunday my old school friend comes to visit, yay! I'll spend Sunday and next Wed and Thu with her before she leaves on Friday. Depending on the weather, will need to take leave and crack on with the last of uni fieldwork... I think April and May I'll have to be prepared to only do the bare minimum of work work, take as much time off as possible, and seriously start vomiting out some words

  • Early morning pigeons are not as cool as a flock of rainbow lorikeets

  • Reoccurring repeat dream last night. In my dream I think I can opening and hitting treasure chests of some sort and more would appear and they were supposed to do something after I bashed them open but it would start from scratch and the who process would repeat.

    It felt endless as well and felt like the dream was going on for hours on end.

    Feeling more tired than I should to be honest today.

  • Compression gloves are on too. Been months since I've had stiff fingers and hands like this.

    Why you do this to us Melbourne?

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