Supportive rule
Supportive rule


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I have been with wife almost thirty years. I wish it had occurred to me to ask this so many times before saying something. So many times.
I ask my wife and kids if they need someone to help problem solve or just listen. It's been a game changer.
“Is this the feeling stage” to me feels like, “are you ready to here solutions or are you going to keep complaining?”.
The idea is sound but the wording needs work.
There's no ordering to the ways it's worded. It doesn't say "ready for solutions yet?" Or "are you still having feelings".