More fun together

I think you'd find this to be a more common situation than most people would think. I think a lot of people would be open to exploring a lot of generally kinky things, but haven't found the right person that matches them!

I don't know where you fall on the Ace spectrum, but it could be worth finding an online partner to help you out depending on what your cup 'o tea is

telling her when she's allowed to cum 🤷

That's a fun one! 🤭

That sounds like a lot of fun!

I think I'd be doing the same, or maybe even doing some mind games to mess with how the sensations are processed (making someone so sensitive that each lick feels like a knife's edge, or going into edging/gooning). Maybe some slight breath/fear play as the arms are tied?

I'm not at the stage where I'd be fed grapes while twisting my nipples to the sight of the scene, although I'd like to try that some time ;)

Not long term, but for the duration of a photo you're usually ok.