Do men like it when we swallow your cum or doesn’t really matter?

Well, yeah a lot of men are really into it.

For me, it isn't a specific fetish, but it does come with a symbolic weight that other actions don't have. Again, it isn't something I need or have a strong desire for for. But, there is something a little dejecting when someone spits it out actively. It's a subtle rejection, though fully understandable. I've had semen in my mouth, and I'm not fond of it at all.

Having had semen in my mouth, I have zero problems with anyone that doesn't want it to stay there. But it is a lot better if it isn't done in a way that's unusually intense. Sure, spit it out, but maybe don't run to do it, just casually do so. Or just back off a bit and let it hit the front of your mouth and immediately run out, if it isn't a deep throat situation.

It is true though, that the symbolic weight of accepting the seed and taking it in matters. Not just to me, I've known many men to say the same thing, though not always in those words. It is also true that a partner that enjoys the process of both making a man ejaculate and swallowing (or even spitting after savoring it) feels extra special. Again, that's not just me, other men have said similar.

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All my past partners swallowed and I loved when they did.

One partner would even jump off me during sex so I could finish in her mouth and she would swallow.

My wife does not swallow or give bjs after I've been inside her. Its her choice and I respect it. But I am a bit bummed that those good times are over for me.

It's nice. It makes things smooth and If she enjoys it; it's awesome.

I do like it, but not if my partner doesn't enjoy it too

I've never had a spitter, but then I haven't had many lovers who would finish me to completion, and they were swallowers. The rest would suck me for a few minutes and that was it. The first time I came in a mouth, my world changed.

Depends on person I guess. For me - I'd be happy if she likes it. But if not, that's okay too

It's something I really like or even finishing in my mouth, and spit would be cool... but sadly, she is not a huge fan. In 16 years of being with her, i think she tried it like 4 times. If it's going to happen, it's normally discussed and becomes a big thing, but even then, she pulls out of doing it last minute. It's fine, clearly its not her thing, so I would never force that, of course, but it is sad that I may never get to have that my entire life either.

I had an ex that never lost a drop, it was great. I had another ex that tried it and seemed to have liked it. Then I had another ex that actively avoided it. I say I enjoyed the exs that swallowed.

I can tell you I slurped all of them up.

I'd like what makes her happy

I had a GF that viewed it as me making the effort for HER to generate semen for her pleasure, so she would always swallow every last ounce of my load