Specifically woman fans, what is it about yaoi that you like (if you are a yaoi fan)?

OK, well, any gender can like yaoi, but I mainly see it with women, which is why I ask. As a straight man, I have tried to get into yaoi but I don’t really find it attractive. Sure, I find it cute, but I don’t find it attractive nor do I find any of the male characters attractive. I recognize that each person will answer differently, but is it the fact that there’s attractive guys in yaoi? The storyline? What exactly?

I will answer as a straight man who finds yuri really cute. I’m a trans man, so I heavily related to yuri when I was a girl and I found it really cute as well. Maybe because I’m not into guys, I don’t understand yaoi and can’t fully appreciate it?