Shit if I think I got my point across I'm pretty happy
Actually really I think more often we think "I SHOULD have said that!". It's like we know so so many words until a native comes to talk to us and then all our words go hiding somewhere.
I find it cool that in my company’s cultural tolerance / unconscious bias course, they kind of call out how everyone’s going to have their initial struggles of possibly saying the wrong thing, and just accept that it’s a part of learning something new.
If you’re visiting an African family and end up saying something insensitive, you can apologize while still continuing to engage; as long as your hosts are good people they’ll likely accept common flubs as long as you show signs of improvement.