It was a quiet weekend for me, girlfriend came over and we stayed in all domestic like. Nice relaxing weekend after getting wild on New Year's. No crazy toys or adventures or anything, just us enjoying each other. Did discuss some more about potentially playing with this other couple, still not sure I'm there yet
Reading your replies on the last update, I respect how integrated sex, intimacy, closeness, and love(?) are for you. I wonder sometimes if I'm missing out by experiencing ask these things separately rather than prioritizing bringing it all together into one person. Kudos.
Definitely love for sure, I fell hard and fast for this girl, I never stood a chance! I've had plenty of casual partners for no-strings sex before, my first experiences even were with my best friend, nothing romantic there, just really close friends. It's just that when I'm in a relationship, that always seems to just wrap everything up all together in the perfect package, I've never stepped outside that to explore consensual non-monogamy type stuff. I don't have anything against it for sure, and I can see the appeal, I just don't know how I'd handle it and I'm leery of windimg up hurting her or being hurt, emotionally speaking, if that makes any sense
Nothing really exciting for me! I ordered a set of plugs and a different style of nipple clamps to try out. I ordered from a new place and they shipped my order in 4 hours,. crazy! 😂
Nothing super naughty, but over the new years I got chatting to this girl at work who:
Called me cute
Gave me a cute name like triceratops (it has our own meaning)
Been talking to me non-stop at work and pretty much over the holidays
So I'm thinking to myself "yeah she likes me". I'm calling her cute and complimenting her, she is receptive, calling me cute etc.
During a conversation I'm talking about medical issues I have with travelling across the country, and she is asking me about whether I could travel etc. I basically ask if she's asking me to travel to hers (which I would kindly point out why I can't do that at least if she said yes) and she says this:
"I'm already in a relationship, so I'm not interested in you that way (:"
So I'm like "oh well, blew it"
After a few days of not really talking (I backed off out of respect) we are back taking like we did before.
I think she likes me in some capacity, but not romantically or sexually. Shame, because she's hot AF.
Let's see...rekindling recurring datenight's with wifey, stocking up on sexy lingerie and other bits and bobs. Parenting and having a healthy, active sex life sometimes collides. Now, back out to finding a hotel for this weekend's "escape".