My natural inclination is toward black gallows humor in situations like these, but I have to keep reminding myself that a lot of people are going to get harmed and laughing is an unacceptable faux pas.
I also have to remind myself that "not knowing what to do with all these feels" may result in unhelpful reactions.
Yet I still want to stand on DeSantis' head and shout "what the hell did you damn well expect you fucking troglodyte". Feelings are tricky.
4.6 million people voted for desantis, and 21 million people live in Florida. Less than a quarter of the people that live in the state voted him into office. It is deeply unfair to say "a lot of people voted him into office" because it ignores the people that are affected by this decision and either voted against it, can't do anything about it, or just didn't. I know you said most people don't vote at all but Florida isn't a monolith and it's really important to remember that when things like this negatively affect millions of people that either didn't want this to happen or had no say.
The "not voting" thing is actually a little complicated.
First off - there are many people who don't vote. The reasons are not always simple.
Yes there are lazy asshats who would support non-ghouls and could easily do it and don't. You can shit on them.
But they aren't necessarily the majority.
There are numerous hurdles that on their own aren't tough, but that overlap and stack sometimes and when added up act as a significant obstacle that many just don't see the benefit to trying to overcome :
Polling places aren't open on weekends or holidays. And there really isn't strong protections for workers being given time to wait in long lines to vote. Many people work 40+ hrs a week at places that - although legally technically have to give you time to go vote, really have middle management types that WILL retaliate against you in a way that is technically hazy enough that any sort of legal consequence for them doing so isn't worth pursuing if you are barely getting by and making poverty-line income.
The Rs close polling stations ANYWHERE near poorer areas they can. That's why places like Houston have like ONE polling station for a county with literal millions of voters. They know no one wants to stand for 4 hours in line in 105F Texas heat just to drop a ballot in a box that they also think won't win because of how often the Rs like Cruz, Abbott, etc. keep winning or just holding on to their seats.
Democratic officials voluntarily water down their own legislation in a stupid attempt to "reach out" and seek middle ground, which only lessens the motivation for voters... like instead of "we're going to wipe out all medical debt" you get stuff like "we're going to allow voters to go to a website (that barely functions) and they can fill out a 12 page form that will allow them to apply for a 1-time partial percentage-based rebate that changes depending on your income and insurance information for the past 3 years."
All this shit adds up to only make people feel discouraged or that their vote wouldn't matter anyway, or that there's nothing really to show up to fight for.
Yes that sucks, yes people should understand that by not showing up, they then FORFEIT various EXISTING rights like the right to an abortion... but that's not how people think. People show up for a REWARD... not to defend what they already have but don't know what they might lose.
Like - here's my favorite way to help people better understand this because I get into arguments all the time about that last point :
In the US, people show up for Black Friday sales, because the reward they imagine they'll get is a motivating factor. Now imagine if instead of getting a shitty 65" TV for 75% off, Best Buy said "come in on Black Friday and fill out a form to protect your right to get a refund within 90 days when products are defective."
No one would show up. And when Best Buy then decided because no one showed up to fill out the form to now no longer allow refunds, suddenly would a bunch of assholes saying "TOLD YOU TO SIGN UP FOR THE BEST BUY PROTECT YOUR PURCHASES FORM! SUCKS TO SUCK LOLOLOL!" be in the right? Yeah... I guess... but - again - showing up en masse to do something that protects a possible loss isn't how people generally think when making decisions to do or not do something that asks them to inconvenience themselves.
We live in a country where at least forty million people (probably a lot more now, since that stat was from 2016) can't afford to miss a day of work.
If taking a day off to vote means missing a rent payment, you wouldn't vote either. The problem isn't the voters, unless we're talking about the 98% that keep voting Democrat or Republican no matter the record. The problem is that both major parties have made it deliberately inconvenient and difficult to vote in the first place.
Yeah I think it is just people hating on floridians because bad politics man bad and so the people there supposedly deserve any bad thing that happens?