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I came out to myself during the pandemic and I still feel all messed up about it. Any advice or lived experience is appreciated ❤️
  • I did feel some shame when I first started to acknowledge my attraction to men, but it subsided on its own. I don't think I felt weak so much as "icky" when I was getting used to the idea (probably from kids at school always using "gay" as an insult). But as I got more used to acknowledging the attraction that went away. Can you describe what it is about being with another man that makes you feel "less than" (no judgment, just what does the irrational voice in your head say)?

    What does your wife say? One thing that's been very helpful for me is my wife telling me she thinks it's hot that I'm into guys too, but I know not everyone feels that way.

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