As a snoot expert, that is indeed a big snoot. I am jealous.

Is it that difficult to let people enjoy funding clothes they like to wear? The subreddit had 5.4 million subscribers. That's 5.4 million people who disagreed with your opinion. Hopefully that gives you some perspective.

Started Valley, for sure.

If she wants a grundy, but casual game, get her playing a MMO like Guild Wars 2. It's horizontal progression so you are not competing to get better gear all the time. It's just casual grind to get fashion, new titles, achievements etc. I am sure she will be addicted.

The water restrictor is there because it's purpose is to save water. There are really no downsides to removing it if your pressure is low.