I would say this problem mostly exists in black metal, and blackened subgenres. Not saying it doesn't exist in other metal genres, but it's much rarer.
For me, I get extraordinarily scared. I'm not in the same state of mind, at all. Emotions build up fast and intensely. I did get used to it though. That's what I do, keep eyes closed, try to keep calm, and ignore the weird sounds and weird sensations.
As a man who agrees that dads should be allowed, supported and encouraged to take a long paternity leave, I must say that the idea of a woman working the day after giving birth is much more horrifying than the man working the day after his wife gave birth.
Can you imagine how specialized you would be if you only had one interest? Like the example non-ADD person just into politics... They must know the name of every representative at every level from city to country where they are living, know the detailed history of the political parties, and have a deep knowledge of political movements and their history.
I don't understand how throwing millions of dollars at lawyers will help if she's indeed breaking the law. Wouldn't that be something easy to prove for a regular lawyer?
New friend: "hey, we live close, why don't you come over?"
You: go full circle through the whole country to get there