I've found that I use all the stuff that I host except file management. I really need to get on that one.

Double layer for ads. PiHole for stuff that has no extensions/shitty extensions (iOS).

Navidrome for not having a copy of my music library on everything. Not paying for Spotify and having to use a stupid blackbox shared library to access stuff that I paid for.

AirMessage/Bluebubbles because Apple sheep herds love the color blue.

pfSense for remote access RDP.

I'm probably going to add Piped for Yattee soon.