JohntheJohn @ JohntheJohn @lemmynsfw.com

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As a dude I sometimes suggest it. Depending on how our bodies line up it can be helpful.

That's true. So far I've dodged it I guess.

Glad you learned something new.

If you are ever in the Hamburg area feel free to message me. I can give you some pointers. The most famous redlight places here are all tourist traps. So beware.

Zero actually. I get myself tested once or twice a year and so far, knock on wood, I never had any issues. Be smart, don't do bareback sex.

It's a hobby I don't get to talk about a lot so I find it freeing to finally be able to share some experiences.

I'm also happy it's interesting to you.

I haven't noticed much if at all. That might be because some hide it well and maybe because I avoid the more shady and less pleasant places. And I also never see streetworkers. I mostly see independent girls and go to higher class clubs and brothels.

There it is uni students and girls with bad job perspectives like it they skipped school too much, that's it mostly if they are German. Or girls from Eastern Europe where I don't know exactly what their deal is. Probably support family at home idk. But no obvious drug issues.

Many if not most do. Even many independent girls have a card payment machine for credit card or EC (which is also very common here in Germany). But I mostly pay cash except for the more expensive dates, which the girls prefer because it lets them skirt taxes I guess.

Purely sexual fantasies as in practices I wanted to try but haven't? Or constellations I wanted to try but haven't? No. I have done everything I have felt the urge to try during the past years.

One of the first things I tried was a threesome and I still have them regularly. But I also tried 3, 4, 5 and up to 6 girls on my for one night full of pure fucking and sensorial overload. It was a very fun experience and them all being paid absolutely takes performance anxiety out of the equation for me. But I would not repeat it. I was also younger and fitter then. I did take a performance pill for that one later though because I wanted to cum with each girl at least once.

I tried a FMM threesome with a buddy and that was alright but not my jam. I did a lot of FFMM dates with said buddy or even with three to four girls plus the two of us dudes, and those are always great fun. He has a ridiculously huge dick which makes the dynamic kind of funny sometimes tbh. Mine isn't tiny but maybe slightly above average. The girls will joke about it all the time like when we switch a girl from him to me or vice versa, they might say "Ah, finally a break from THAT thing." or "I guess this was just the tutorial level." which I think is hella funny and cute. And before anyone says I am jealous or a cuck or whatever: he doesn't get anal or some other positions with that thing so if anyone is jealous regularly it is him. JK. We just both think the whole vibe is hilarious which is why we try to meet at least 3 times a year to screw around the brothels here even though he moved several hours away now.

I got sidetracked. So I did try bondage and BDSM practices on submissive girls who offer these services. I urinated on a girl which I was wondering if I'd like it and it was surprisingly hot but not really a kink for me I'd end up repeating.

I tried all kinds of public and private roleplay and still do occasionally. Especially roleplay in public can be a ton of fun. Scenarios like where I flirt, make out with and pick up a girl or two girls in public. The reactions of some people are just fun to experience. I once had a random woman join me and an escort after I "picked up" the escort at a bar and we ended up with a threesome which was a nice twist.

Another bucket list item is I had sex with one of my favorite pornstars for money and it was surreal and crazy satisfying experience. She's from the czech republic and was in Germany for an erotic convention called "Venus" in Berlin. I offered a few grand of money to a few actresses I enjoyed watching whom I have met. One of them said yes and we ended up at my hotel room. In the end it was not better or worse than a really good night with a prostitute but just her being a pornstar I jerked it to a lot before put her on a pedestal that was absolutely making this so ridiculously hot for me.

I've had semi-public sex in front of other Johns and workers in the public areas of FKK clubs. People watching can be a nice kick for me I found so sometimes I'll have a fuck at the porn cinema or in the bar area if a girl is cool with that.

I've had all sorts of nuru and oil and body to body and prostate massages which are all absolutely great. I do those semi regularly as well, like one every few months or so.

Other than that I tried pretty much all fetishes which interested me like feet, pain, slaves, bondage in different ways and so on, had sex with pretty much all ethnicities and body types, tried tons of toys on girls and had them use them on me. Getting absolutely annihalated by a fleshlight during a long BDSM edging session while being died up was a very memorable experience as well. I should probably repeat that.

I probably could go on and on and I kind of enjoy sharing these a bit too much but reminiscing can be fun too. However these are the standouts for me. There has been a lot of crazy stuff.

I haven't but I regularly see advertisements by trans prostitutes and often they have some of the hottest photos so maybe one day I'll give it a try.

Not if everything is already prepared and ready to go. But if I still have to wait then I often prefer to get going now PIV.

In the pussy aka into the condom. Sometimes cuming into the condom in her mouth is free too.

Yes I have talked to some of my regular girls about it. Interestingly they all cited the feeling of enjoying someone else enjoy what you do and your body as the main fun part of the job. They don't get off or actually feel horny or satisfied or whatever usually. But the satisfaction of making someone feel all kinds of sexy things is enjoyable.

I for one can not only separate love and sex pretty well. I find I can also separate mutual sex and sex as a service. Mutual sex is all about the shared experience Imo. About enjoying each other and seeing someone else be horny and make them enjoy you. But paid sex is about me. She will do what I enjoy to make me feel as much pleasure as possible. In that it's a lot more like mastubation in a sense. When I jerk off I only care about what I enjoy.

One thing is I don't like mouth to mouth kisses when being with a prostitute. It just doesn't feel right for me. Body kisses and enjoying her body with my mouth is great however.

Sometimes when horny and while having sex I can have fantasies about her loving it. In the moment it doesn't really matter to me at that point. And afterwards I of course know that isn't the case. But some suspension of disbelief is nice at times.

Also with some of the ladies I get along really well in a regular customer kind of way. Like when you go to the same pub for 3 years you'll get to know even the most professional barkeep a bit. And some even more.

I hope you can make some sense of this. If not let me know and I'll try to clarify.

I work a lot and hard and had some luck during my career. Also I paid off my flat now so I have pretty low cost of living.

Average per hour is 180 to 200 euros in most cities. Rural can be as low as 140 for an hour but I've had better experiences in larger cities.

I don't get any discounts but one girl used to do titfucks as a free extra. She no longer does but for her longtime regulars it stays free which is nice as she has amazing boobs and knows how to use them.

Idk I never ask and I'm not a fan of stds so I wouldn't. Also it's illegal here even BJs without condom. However no one's gonna check of course.

I enjoy raw blow jobs every now and then when offered but none of my regulars offer those as they are actually all very reasonable and smart ladies as far as I can tell.

I rarely do kinky stuff although I tried many extreme practices before which had me interested and I still occasionally do. Some soft and medium bdsm. Depending on my mood I enjoy being dominant or submissive so sometimes I really like being blindfolded and tied to the bed for example.

But in general some extra services just add up. Anal, cum on face or body, titfuck etc. Are all extra. So a session can quickly amount to a few hundred, especially if it goes longer.

I also like treat myself to a threesome every other month or so. Two of my regular girls work together too as a duo which is nice.

With my regular girls there is some routine to the whole business now. Some I've been seeing for years on the regular. On the plus side they know what I enjoy really well. And having great Sex with stunning chicks never really gets old I guess.

When seeing new ladies I am still super nervous and excited each time. There is something special about meeting a hot woman for the first time, seeing her naked or in underwear immediately. Knowing after a tiny bit it small talk she'll be all over you in the best way possible. Still makes me all giddy to this day.

I have had a few experiences which weren't enjoyable for different reasons. Some women don't really offer good service, sometimes chemistry isnt there, sometimes there is a misunderstanding in what was agreed upon.

In those cases you either try to enjoy what you get or you cancel and accept there is no money back. That's why I usually book a short date when seeing a new girl. Half and hour, suck and fuck, no extra service. It's usually 100 bucks around here for that getting to know each other sex date. And if that's wasted then so be it. I don't use money for paysex that I can't afford to lose.

If you want examples of how things didn't pan out I can give you one or two. But overall the pleasant experiences have been way more plentyful than the bad ones.

I have five girls I see regularly. Some I have set weekly or fortnightly appointments with. Some I just have on short dial and visit regularly.

But I also enjoy seeing new girls ever so often.

I spend around 1500 - 2000€ per month on sex currently.

Sometimes I'll book a girl to accompany me during a work trip or short vacations. That's more expensive and I got an extra budget for that so to speak.

17 or so?

Last evening. It's 1 pm now so around 8 pm yesterday. That should be about right.