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  • That's a good quote.

    Also props for recognizing your own people-pleasing tendencies. And I'm glad to hear you've worked on it. It takes time to understand what causes us to be like that. It might be out of fear of rejection or some other unwanted outcome. And it could be based on some irrational assumptions or beliefs.

    To be able to accept any outcome in any situation is very difficult, but a strong foundation for confidence and inner peace.

  • There are different kinds of kindness. The people-pleasing kind may come across as being naive and triggers some people. Another kind of kindness is to actually care and be curious about others and that usually comes across better.

  • I got inspired by this post and decided finally to pull the trigger on my attempt at replacing my derailleur. It took a while, but I got it done and in the end I was surprised how well it went. Thanks OP!