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Am I "trans enough"
  • Why do you not feel cis? Maybe your identity lies in the non-binary spectrum.

    Yeah I don't have a good answer for this. Not do I know how to get one. I've kind of always thought I really was a girl, just too scared to transition or admit it. But very recently I'm questioning that. I don't necessarily think I'm a girl. But I know that being a "guy" just isn't right either.

    I guess I'm not totally even sure what "non binary" even means. Like, I've always felt like it was a cop out kind of identity. And maybe that is just more residence that it resonates with me and is something scary or IDK. It's hard for me to accept what non binary actually means, and especially how it relates to identifying as trans. Assuming the non binary label fits what I am, am I "trans"?

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  • So I know everyone is going to answer "yes", but I want actual real thoughts. I just want to know where I fit in.

    I'm AMAB, and present as male, at least on the surface. I've always felt that was wrong though. But I don't necessarily think I'm a woman. I wish I was more feminine. And recently I started full body laser hair removal, and I have pretty long hair, and currently have my toe nails painted. But I also have a beard, and otherwise present totally as cis.

    Am I "trans"? I don't feel "cis", but I feel like calling myself trans just isn't accurate and is inappropriate. Is there any other option?

    And a complicating factor is that I'm basically only attracted to female presenting people. I see a lot of mtf trans people posting online "t4t". Would other trans people consider me "trans"?

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    Anon appears in a viral tiktok
  • I think the point was he didn't expose HIMSELF

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    Ameruleica 🦀
  • No one believes that you actually believe any of that.

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    Alec Baldwin’s involuntary manslaughter case dismissed, cannot be filed again
  • And there's the added layer of Baldwin being the producer

    He was A producer

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    Guess the Episode [Medium]
  • No, the bordello. So just keep your mouth shut

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    3rd hiker dies in Grand Canyon in last 3 weeks
  • as the lack of humidity means you don't sweat

    Wtf? That's not his that works

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    Are there worthwhile NSFW subs on other instances?
  • What kind of NSFW? Yiffit has yiff

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    It's okay to say this about your own body but please don't force it on others
  • I don't even know what this means. An illusion? What does that mean in this context.

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    New Crazy Taxi title will be an open-world, massively multiplayer AAA game, according to Sega
  • Black chain is dead. No one cares anymore

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    1 year linux anniversary :P
  • Just make sure to use kde

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    Are Body Temperature and Depression Linked? Science Says, Yes.
  • Fuck off with this bullshit. Talk therapy is good but it's not a solution.

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    Byron Bay is to be stripped of its nudist beach – and naturists blame ‘conservative creep’
  • San Francisco is not actually clothing optional. Full nudity is mostly illegal. You have to cover the genitals

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    How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping
  • I'm not the most creative person, but I do enjoy the technical aspect of creative things. I've tried to crochet and knit in the past. It's definitely a good idea. Maybe I'll order some crochet supplies and give it another shot.

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    How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping
  • A little bit a long time ago. Was hard for me to get into

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    How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping
  • Technically I'm currently traveling, that's what this month period is. I COULD go somewhere else, but I don't want to by myself. This is the best place for me mentally at the moment.

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    How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping
  • I've told my manager that I'm having issues. I don't actually want to take time off because work is a pretty decent way to pass the time. But I'm not in a mental space to focus at my usual level. So I think I've got that covered

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  • I'm having some personal issues causing some severe depression and anxiety. I'd like to get past this time as fast as possible, and my days are dragging on. I can't sleep, which would be a good way to make time go fast. But I also can't just play video games, I don't have the motivation to play more than a few minutes and it also just makes me realize how alone I am with no friends or anyone I can connect with emotionally and I spiral into my anxiety and depression.

    I can do stuff during the day, run, chores, etc. But as soon as I'm done, especially at night, I start freaking out and it seems like time stands still. Does anyone have any suggestions? Activities I can do that are mindless that will just kill time and get me through the night before I can just go to sleep?

    I know this question is stupid but I'm looking for at least somewhat serious answers.

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    I'm struggling to figure out how to make friends without having Instagram or any other social media. I have discord but don't use it much. I see all my acquaintances in discord channels and sharing Instagram posts and stuff. It's already hard for me to make friends, but I feel like not having any of the traditional social media means I'm not included in any of that stuff.

    Do you just accept that Instagram and shit are the way people interact and use it?

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    You create a new user to repost that users content from reddit? This is absolutely ridiculous. You make it so we can't block your spam by blocking the bot user if you create a new user for every post.

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    I was looking through some old songs from animated movies tonight. This one brought on some intense nostalgia. I know all dogs go to heaven 2 isn't the best movie, but I had the biggest crush on Sasha la Fleur. And I very vividly remember loving this song, but feeling embarrassed to admit it to anyone (don't think I ever did).

    With shit like this though https://youtu.be/6wjR1ZciUBQ, how did everyone not turn out to be furries?

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