@65gmexl3 Hm, that's strange. Could have been when i unplugged my router to do some housework. Downside of home self-hosting!
I've also had issues on mobile internet sometimes, as I think a few carriers don't seem to allow connection to residential IPs. Have t had much issue with normal broadband, however.
@65gmexl3 Looks like sending from my server was pretty quick, but I'm running a single user node on a probably overpowered server, haha. Could be something with Lemmy or just the amount of tasks your lemmy server is experiencing.
@65gmexl3 Oh and about your other question: it looks like you posted 2 days ago but I received it 13 hours ago at my server, so a little delay. Mainly the nature of working with federated servers is that things aren't always instantaneous.
@65gmexl3 Yep they all talk ActivityPub! Friendica is one of the few that also supports Diaspora protocol so I can talk to people there too.
@utopify_org Wordpress has an ActivityPub plugin that may work in your case.
@cwagner @psylancer Also the fediverse in general having easier ways to self-host at home or on a VPS, which helps distribute costs/storage/bandwidth.