Minetest and several others that I play regularly have already been mentioned, so I wanted to shout out a game I've been following and playing for years, waiting for their 1.0 release: FreeOrion
Ugh yeah the official app for Reddit is so bad... I went from using RIF every time I had any time to spare to maybe opening Reddit once a day for a few minutes.
You could determine which XEPs to support...? Also, the usual benefits of hosting your own services. But neither is really a strong selling point IMHO.