There are a number of communities that are unrelated to ADHD but that naturally attract neurodivergent people. I am thinking of Burning Man community, sex positiveness/kinky/poliamory. No idea why but empirically the more the community is outside the “social norms” the more likely you’ll find neurodivergent folks
Which of the communities I mentioned attracted you most? Burning man or sex or relationships?
There are different “entry points” for each of them 🙂
If you have no idea, I would recommend looking around before 🙂