No sexy times recently. A lot of doomscrolling and dating app messages that went nowhere. I definitely overpaid for a pair of shiny black tights.

I put my sexual preferences in my dating profiles and I make sure I'm as direct as the setting allows. I can't understand people who are coy about their sexuality. Mismatching sexuality is absolutely a dealbreaker. I recently spent an entire day with a guy who suddenly decided he wasn't gay. Could have saved me the trouble.

I think it's good to get people's sexualities out in the open before the relationship even begins. Like, I'm a bottom and I simply don't fuck women (in a conventional sense). Gay guys are more understanding. It's kind of a big deal and I wouldn't want to lead with false assumptions.

Thanks for the encouragement. My mother is flat as well, but even the slightest hint of breasts is a strong signal to some heterosexual males. I don't see myself as a woman and most others don't either, but at some point I expect the woman switch to flip.

That's a nice long story with lots of twists and turns. There were a couple of minor grammatical errors and the improper use of double quotes near the bullet points. I like the cute/naughty organization as it helps me find my place without overcomplicating things. It sounds very vanilla tbh, but I guess D is that kind of guy. To me, dad body jerk-off isn't exactly the sexiest thing, but I'm sure to some people it's really hot. (I didn't watch the bonus video but I'm sure people will appreciate it.)

I'm traaaaaaaaaaans! Started estradiol and spironolactone last week. They say it takes like 10 days to a month to notice things, and so far I haven't seen a reduction in sex drive or alertness beyond my usual ebb and flow. Hair loss hasn't changed either, but my facial and body hair is thinner and softer, improving the feeling after a shave. Finasteride or dutasteride would do the same thing, but I'm hoping for eventual total feminization if possible. (I'm fine with having a dick, but I'm a bottom so I don't need it.)

I'm fascinated with women's fashion, and my makeup collection now fills a purse. Between Goodwill and Amazon I've accumulated a fairly complete wardrobe. It's mostly slutty stuff of course, and it's always slightly disappointing that I don't yet have titties to fill the tops. I really dig the schoolgirl look. A cosplay set I bought comes with a microskirt that feels like a 26" non-elastic waist (I'm 30", maybe women's size 5 or 6) so the thing rides really high and exposes my junk. UwU I'll be replacing it with a better fit when I go out in public. Hoping to get groped by a stranger on Halloween or something.

UwU thank you. I'm cumming around to appreciating daddies, but my attraction is quicker with femboys and trans people. Maybe we'll meet one day

They aren't, but chasing down websites in other languages is a pain in the ass. The Japanese see basically all non-Japanese people as copyright infringers. I've downloaded JAV that's bookended and watermarked with Chinese ads because the Chinese have the gall to do that, not the Japanese who probably see it as an annoyance and primarily target the domestic Japanese market anyways.

I told my first gf I was bi and she brought over her other boyfriend to tie me up and fuck my ass <3

🤤 I want a taste

Met a fellow 30something crossdresser and free software guy on Hinge. It seemed like a great fit. We met for coffee and talked for a few hours, then he told me he wasn't gay and didn't want to meet me again. For fuck's sake. My ass won't destroy itself. 🥵😭

Now that I've scrolled through 1000+ profiles and determined that they aren't gay enough for me (I don't really go for masc/closeted/straight-looking people and I try to limit the age range to 25-40s) I really need to figure out what the fuck part of this community I'm overlooking or not understanding. I'm willing to drop out of college and move for the right relationship. Ever since I became a gay femboy, things have gotten harder.

Grow your hair out and (if you're looking for things to buy) bleach/dye it.

Are long-term master/slave dynamics common in the gay community?

There is !chat@lemmynsfw.com but it's kinda dead

Have you explored sadomasochism? There are groups on fetlife that meet and may be open to a couple. The usual staple activities are bondage and flogging. Mix some pegging in if you like being more dominant. There are also more extreme kinks that your partner may be into (watersports, puke, fisting).

I'm a pan non-binary AMAB and I like femboys and anything BDSM.

I share pictures sometimes, but not because I enjoy swapping pictures or anything. It's more of a way to get feedback/affirmation. I don't think I would enjoy another long-distance relationship with just swapping pics. Some people do, and I don't judge. Text-based roleplay is interesting, but I think sites like Umbra have absorbed that community.

University of Oklahoma has an organization and there are probably more at other colleges in the state. I can attest to the difficulties of online dating. There may also be LGBTQ resources in your town or nearby, like a social gathering at a community center or something.

Replace him with a suitable substitute on some dating platform. If you're in a major city, that shouldn't be difficult. If you're out in the sticks like I am, alcohol may be your only friend. Maybe get a job or attend a college in a place where gays can be gay.

You should definitely grow your hair out too, if you aren't dealing with male pattern baldness. And paint your nails. Real sissies are in sissy mode all the time.

Women's shirts tend to fit the torso better than the loose cut of most men's shirts. There are different types (blouses, knits, crop tops) but they're all mixed together in the same section at the thrift store. It also helps to wear colorful socks. Don't forget hair clips, which serve the practical purpose of keeping hair out of your face. I have a set of 20 little colorful clips that look like flowers when I arrange them in my hair, and it only takes 5 minutes.