It sounds like you are a straight woman who actually thought about your sexuality and might have some social conditioning that is making you feel repulsed by women kissing instead of just not finding it arousing without knowing why. At least you thought about it!
You can most likely get over that revulsion, as in accept that since it doesn't involve you it is just like any two people kissing, if you spend some time reflecting on how it really isn't any different than seeing any other two people kiss.
We had no issue holding votes during wars in the past so any attempt to use that argument will absolutely set off a civil war if one isn't already underway.
I love that your keep trying to conflate culture and race in the context of a meme about common US themes. It's like you don't understand the difference between racist tropes used to further oppression and mocking pop culture references.
I'm guessing you don't go to many country music festivals.
I had to work one back in the early 2000s and we started counting US flag to traitor flag bikinis and it was about a 3:1 ratio. Most of them were wearing cowboy hats and Daisy Dukes (jean shorts), but a few just had bikini bottoms.
As a kid I was in 4-H and raised pigs. I was sad about my first one when its time came, but they tasted so good that I named the second one Bacon.