Ask a friend to hold onto your disks.

Then you can say truthfully, if asked, I used to rip CDs, DVDs and bluray, but I don't have this material any more, I just stream legitimate content off Amazon/Netflix etc.

But you need to learn how to fool polygraph tests because you'll still have a "tell"

I've opened port 22 to specific IPv4 addresses, like my employer's, friends and family.

For any other IPv4 origin, its best to set up a VPN. It's trivial to set up wireguard.

You're probably safe to open port 22 for IPv6, as the address space is unfeasibly large to be scanned, but still, the secops in me doesn't like security by obscurity, so I don't. Also, there's evidence that hackers use things like IPv6 access logs on NTP to find accessible devices to target.

Write a simple script which iterates over the files and generates a hash list, with the hash in the first column.

find . -type f -exec md5sum {} ; >> /tmp/foo

Repeat for the backup files.

Then make a third file by concatenating the two, sort that file, and run "uniq -d". The output will tell you the duplicated files.

You can take the output of uniq and de-duplicate.

Bashtop is pretty. But not scalable.

I use Zabbix. Runs fine in a relatively small VM. Easy to write plugins.