Can you point out examples where this is happening? Because the mods and admins are unaware.
Otherwise it sounds you're suggesting killing healthy cells before they have the chance to become cancer cells, which doesn't seem like great medical advice. (as far as I know. I'm not a doctor.)
Okay, that took a little longer than expected. Here's the confirmed list of Lemmy services that have defederated from LemmyNSFW:
partizle.com
aussie.zone
lemmy.ml
feddit.de
lemmy.intai.tech
lemmy.douwes.co.uk
lemmy.serverfail.party
talk.kururin.tech
dormi.zone
lemmy.tillicumnet.com
feddit.dnico.io
lemmy.procrastinati.org
crystals.rest
mlem.lea.moe
lemmygrad.ml
lemmy.design
pcglinks.com
discuss.divergentparenting.space
dmv.social
distress.digital
i.d0ntknow.me
lemmy.hqueue.dev
borg.chat
forkk.me
lemthony.com
lemmy.bleh.au
on.syrma.cc
lemmy.ecliptik.com
ducks.dev
udclemmy.xyz
lemmy.starmade.de
lemmy.calebmharper.com
lemmy.dangilbert.eu
lemmonade.marbledfennec.net
bigfoot.ninja
techy.news
lemiverse.xyz
geddit.social
lemmy.safe-internet.org
sopuli.xyz
lemmy.federate.cc
chat.maiion.com
poptalk.scrubbles.tech
lemmy.borlax.com
lemmyfly.org
civilloquy.com
leddit.social
surlesworld.com
lemmy.fromshado.ws
lemmy.mb-server.com
On a semi-related note, I created a tool to check which instances have defederated a certain Lemmy server. It works by getting the servers linked instance list, and for each of those check linked instance list, to see if the first server is blocked. It takes (quite) a few minutes to run, and it only ever hits each server once or twice, so it's pretty chill resource-wise.
As a side-effect, you can also use it to check which of the linked servers are offline in any way, so you could defederate those yourself to limit the amount of needless retries.
As I said, It can take a while to run, so I'll report back once the script is done :)
Love em! Although I do think you forgot to attach them.
Don't care. Love em nonetheless.
Edit: I knew I'd love them <3
Please clear your DNS caches.
Ironically, if you can read this, you don't have to clear your dns cache ;)