We need a c/AreTheStraightsOkay on lemmy, it is my most missed community from reddit at this point.
69Be the change you wish to see my friend.
26ok i made it and i am blaming you for the decision to do so
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You are uniquely positioned on the very best instance for such a community
10ok i made it : https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/are_the_straights_ok
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As a straight, I agree. I think my partner and I are okay. A good reality check periodically won't hurt us though.
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My bitch wife makes me leave the home …because I have higher social needs than her and she loves me
37Mine too, what the hell, I think maybe we should tell people about this life.
10Yeah she even pushes me into the arms of another woman…
Who she gets along with and is happy I get to spend time with
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Haha my ex wife imprisoned me in a decade of servitude the took my children and assets haha what a bitch amiright guys👴
36But they will never tell you why their ex wife left him or their kids want nothing to do with them.
29Elon's wife left him for a trans woman and his trans daughter disowned him. Then he promoted a transphobic documentary produced by a self-identified Nazi. So, chicken and egg problem: is Elon a transphobic Nazi because he's butthurt about trans people, or do trans accepting people dump him because he's a transphobic Nazi?
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God forbid a girlboss does anything
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Idk, if I’m being honest, almost every relationship I’ve been in with any gender has always wound up at some level of manipulation and loss of autonomy. I realize it doesn’t have to but it truly is sad
22I have no wisdom to offer. Just that I feel the same way and it's why I'm single right now. I can't devote energy to that.
6real
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This isn't necessarily a boomer "I hate my wife" meme comment though, right?
It's healthy in a long-term relationship to discuss things with your partner before doing them. When you communicate healthily, there are quite a few things you wouldn't just spontaneously decide to do without talking to your significant other. They might have already made plans, they might need the car, they might not want to do the thing but think you should do it, they might remind you that you're saving for a house deposit or a big trip, so on and so forth.
10I know. Like reading that myind doesn't go to ha the guy thinks his wife's a bitch its more a hey I'm in a long term relationship and that should be a partnership which means sometimes you can't just to and do random shit.
Not to mention all the other responsibilities that keep me a bit more tied down and not going full crazy with zany ideas
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