Yea outside of a small number of experiences with a like minded friend who is no longer available I haven't had much of a chance to explore that side of myself either
I'd say maybe 4/5 times on a night out I'll get flirted with.
I am the only goth in my friend group really haha
I have spoken to them about my sex life but not these specific kinks
What is it about being goth that you enjoy? As I've aged, I've found it difficult to maintain professional employment while having a gothic style. Depends on the field, but most places frown on it.
Idk tbh, I'm the manager at a hotel so I've never really had any problems with finding employment but I can see why it could be difficult. I just think people's personal lives and the way they dress etc. shouldn't be a reason to refuse them employment in general