What did you lose along the way and how will you restore it or make things right again?
What did you lose along the way and how will you restore it or make things right again?
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I lost myself. I married someone who slowly whittled me down to nothing over ten years.
I am divorcing him. It's been five months since I just didn't go home. It's been really hard, hardest thing I've ever done, but I'm coming back to life slowly.
I can't wait to see who I become.
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Badass.
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Same, but I didn't marry them. I became nearly completely useless. Lost almost all friends, hobbies, work, goals, dreams, and even desire. I couldn't recognize myself in the mirror. Coming back has been incredibly difficult since I didn't trust anyone to guide me nor myself. How do you get somewhere without direction? Lately, I think I'm on the right track, but I will never be my old self and that's okay. My old self got me in that situation, so the new one will be better.
Below are three songs that I found validating during these times. Two are in English and one is in Spanish. If you don't speak Spanish, I would happily translate the lyrics for you; just let me know.
Ren and Chinchilla
The Big Push
Residente
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