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How do you study?

Long-time lurker, encouraged by this community to get properly diagnosed recently (Thanks!).

Ok, to the point: I know taking longer to reach a college degree is normal, and I should just make peace with the fact that it might take me an extra year or two. But two whole years into college, trying hard and never being enough (to prevent failing subjects & falling behind) is ...just sad.

Studying feels like trying to make the stars align. I will have to be in the library, with minimal smart devices (Laptop + MP3 player at most), properly prepare for what I need to study (The correct textbooks, maybe a calculator, the right notebook, etc..), in order to have 90% chance of studying.

(Basically the good ol' "For the next 3 hour I am holding you hostage" way)

This works.... but it is really slow and takes a lot of time for average amount of studying.

I would love to experiment with other methods, and hope to hear about how other people manage their studying.

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  • i am probably not the best example, as i never finished my degree, but studiying is the one thing where pomodoro timers were actual helpful for me, but nothing was better than having a small group of people to study with.

    Working on problems together on a whiteboard was almost magical, because so much stayed in my brain without totaly draining my batteries.

    other than that keeping things fresh and fun is important, to this day i'll draw pictures on my notes when going through them, emphasize stuff by putting it in speech bubbles or write stupid stuff in foot notes.

    i also sometimes experiment with different note taking techniques, but it's mostly bullet points.

  • I didn't unless I was with other people, in class or the exam was the next day.

    Got my college diploma and now I'll never go back to that hellish place ✌️

  • I achieved a lot in terms of studying and failed a lot in other areas.

    Ask yourself: Counting only focussed, undistracted studying, do you achieve significantly less IN THE SAME STUDYING TIME than your peers? If the answer is "no", improve your method. If "yes", you will need to put in a few extra years, but do keep going!

    Hit that problem with methods. There are tons of methods that work for some, don't work for others. Pomodoro, X-effect, habit building, Leitner system etc.

    Some things are completely uneffected by ADHD, for example building habits. The prefrontal cortex is not involved in that.

    I use pomodoro, and I'm super strict about it. Here is my old comment: https://lemmy.ml/post/24026788/15853247

    It's good that you have that method in the library! I'd say keep it as it is, don't water it down. Those special focussed sessions will help you a lot. But it should not be an excuse like "I can't do the library thing today, so I do nothing".

    Instead, for situations where you can't, maybe try my method. Think of it like squid game: Players have 10 minutes to study as hard as they can, then the ones with the lowest relative gain are culled. You'd rather pee in your pants than go to the toilet, and you'd not look at your phone when it makes a noise during that time. Maybe you can start with 25 instead of 10 right away, up to you.

    Don't get put off by false perfectionism. There was a group fight in the barracks last night, you haven't showered in days, you didn't drink enough, you got hit on the head and feel dizzy - better put those 10 minutes to good use anyway and survive another game!

  • I didn't get a degree until my thirties, once I got diagnosed and figured out my needs.

    For me it was:

    1. Accomodations,
    2. Meds,
    3. Moving a lot,
    4. Low music with a predictable beat and no vocals,
    5. Accountability checks (showing up for every lectures or partnering/grouping up for every assignment),
    6. Active participation,
    7. Learning by doing, and
    8. Learning by talking.
    9. For maths (the bane of my existence, but soooo satisfying once you get it!) I also got to do the exams in a separate room with headphones on, and could take breaks to run around the building or up and down the stairs a few times whenever I needed to restart my brain. Plus extra time to account for those breaks and the mental breakdowns that preceded them.
    10. Meds are essential for me, but they can make me miss cues from my body. So it's important to manage my body's needs like clockwork while on them, regardless of what I feel like I can do or do without in the moment: eat breakfast and lunch and an afternoon snack/mini-meal to avoid emotional outbursts or binge eating when the meds wear off. Take breaks (just stepping out or standing by an open window to breathe, or set an alarm and lie down with legs up and closed eyes) for a few min every hour. Go to the bathroom. Drink water. Blink. Do not put in overtime to "only" solve/finish this one thing -that thing won't get solved until you have a shower or talk to another human. Overtime/cramming will not be efficient studying, the goal is not just passing one test and forgetting, but actually learning and understanding...and resting is an essential component of that.
    11. Listening to online lectures (or even worse, pre-recorded one's) was impossible until I got a walking pad, and it made writing assignments and at home-tests way easier. For on campus-days I'd run up and down the stairs during every break in or between lectures (most teachers would do breaks every hour but if not I would just ask them for it). Blood flow through legs means blood flow to brain!
    12. Low music without vocals with a good chill beat fill the silence when people are talking too slow and keeps me on track when it gets boring, without stealing attention or focus by being too loud or interesting.
    13. With daily lectures I got a schedule and routine, which got me up and started in the morning and left a suitable time slot for lunch (missing lunch is a big no-no!). While doing assignments with someone else it was a lot easier to get started (I'm great at filling uncomfortable silences that happens when no-one know where to begin) and organise and section off the work into manageable parts, while having someone else to take charge of those last 5% that I seem unable to do.
    14. I need to take plenty of notes during lectures (might never read them again, but just the motion of writing the words help my listening and retention). I also always ask as soon as I get lost or have a relevant question, and attempt to answer any questions during (even if I get it wrong) a class. If I think my question will get answered I'll write it down and ask them at the end if I'm still unsure. If I don't do this, I'll get stuck on something in my mind and stop following along.
    15. I chose a school with a lot of practical learning built into the education. Lots of practical assignments, internship opportunities etc.
    16. Our brains are evolved for conversation, language and communication. When getting stuck, I usually need a break... But if the break doesn't solve it, explaining the difficult thing to someone else will often make me figure it out by the time I've finished talking. If not the other person might have an idea for how to think and move forward. Asking questions, explaining complex concepts to each other, bouncing ideas, telling stories are all great tools for learning and more importantly gaining understanding of a topic.

    Good luck, and if you managed to read all this: you're gonna be fine!

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