THIS could be a good alternative if you don't want to use Cloudflare tunnel, and it does not get talked about a lot here.
In response to the discussion on a recent thread about whether to trust Cloudflare, as some people are not very comfortable with it terminates HTTPS (MITM).
It's open source, very lightweight and I have used it in multiple instances. Frankly there doesn't seem to be a lot of people know/use it here. The idea is you deploy this on a VPS with public IP, and have your server at home connect to it. It is pretty much like your own Cloudflare tunnel, only you have much more control over it (ports, TCP/UDP/HTTP, auth, etc).
I use it on the cheapest VPS ($5) I can find close to where I live. It acts as a simple TCP reverse proxy to my server, where Nginx Proxy Manager handles the actual HTTPS. (You can let FRP handle HTTPS but then you need to think about if you trust the VPS and also keep the certs updated there, so nah.)
It's developed by a Chinese dude as it is pretty much a necessity for selfhosters (mostly minecraft servers) in China, since Public IP is scarce there and most people live behind CGNATs.
I run an oracle free vps with caddy reverse proxy to route traffic to my home server over wireguard/tailscale. Been running this setup from last 4-5 years with zero issues.
This type of tool is interesting, and provides some of the functionality that Cloudflare Tunnel does, but with frp, a vulnerability in your app (or its login screen) could be more easily exploited since you don't have the traffic protection features that Cloudflare provides, right? Maybe combining this with fail2ban (or is there another similar self-hosted tool) would not only act as a proxy but also help protect your app to a degree like Cloudflare does?
Well, pretty much any type of tunneling software such as Tailscale or Wireguard will achieve the same, you just need to change a bit where your components are located.
What I personally do is have swag proxy on the VPS with crowdsec and authelia, this redirects the traffic to the internal wireguard/tailscale mesh network to the specific service requested.
If you are the only user of the services, create a tailscale or a netmaker; Not sure about tailscale but in Netmaker (wireguard based) you can choose to have your VPS as the relay host.
Personally, when I used to route my home services through a VPS- I used a simple VPN tunnel from my VPS to my home network, which my home router would establish (dynamic IP).
From there, my firewall dictated what was actually allowed to enter through the tunnel... and the reverse proxy, did its thing.
With Cloudflare Tunnels, if you disable TLS decryption, use Full or Full (strict), and verify that the certificate in your browser is yours and not Cloudflare's certificate, wouldn't that mean that the SSL is unbroken from your server to the browser? Or can these options not be used with Cloudflare Tunnels?
Frp is a pretty cool tool, I mostly use Tailscale with a Reverse Proxy on a VPS for my remote access, but I tunnel my Minecraft Servers using frp, since it's lower latency and more stable than Tailscale. For Websites I couldn't notice a difference, and Tailscale + Caddy worked easier for me than frp
Tunnel needs a client software, it's higher risk, larger attack surface than normal http reverse proxy.
The Cloudflare tunnel feature is part of its zero-trust product. It make sense if you are capable of audit the client source code. If you trust the client as you trust nginx reverse proxy software, tunnel is safer.
Regular free Cloudflare proxy include basic WAF, it is more useful than selfhosted VPS reverse proxy or fail2ban. These commercial services learn attack patterns much earlier.
My homelab exposed services all have real HTTPS certs behind Cloudflare. My service is configured trust Cloudflare origin only so attackers cannot bypass WAF. This is also the same setup my workplace setup to protect multi-million transactions.
If the tunnel is used not for security reason, but bypass CGNAT, it's at least not worse than selfhosted reverse proxy.
I use this and cloudflare. For my normal self hosted app’s cloudflare works great but for stuff that needs a lot of data (Plex) or custom ports I route I through FRP.
Throughput on these "cheap" VPS providers is atrocious. I have 1Gbe into my home and none of the VPS providers can break more than a few hundred mbps, except for Cloudflare. The other issue is consistency, speeds fluctuate all over the map with these cheap VPS providers - even the big one like Vultr, Linode, and Hetzner aren't much better.
Also, WAF is now free with Cloudflare, so using a solution like this really doesn't make much sense, unless you're serving non-http content.