You don't have to sell me on it, Annie

Enh, he was a little kid, powerful in the force but untrained, and it makes perfect sense (and is perfectly normal) for a kid growing up to get the hots for the older woman. And he may have unintentionally used the force to manipulate her.

Or she's a groomer and he's a child-murderer. Who knows?

Ah yes, those notorious underage groomers.

Vader only choked his lovers.

Its why Tarkin was disgusted in the DS conference room… like teenagers kissing in public … awkward, even painful to watch.