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Hailey/she/her. trans girl I think. everything is a blur. student at a community college somewhere. 21

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  • I'm always cautious when it comes to AI. Like you said it follows a lot of stereotypes and such, and I noticed it messed with my eye shapes in the picture a little bit. It's why I'll never trust the "AI/AR try on" features in clothes shopping, either (also it defeats half the point of trying it on, which is seeing how it feels to wear).

    I feel like I could be a lot prettier, or not. It's a complete mystery until it happens...

  • update: I played with it some more and oh my god is it even possible I could be this pretty someday???? I want to post it but then I'd be showing my face 😞

    edit: I also don't look like my mom OR my ex this way!!

  • egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    haileyscommit @kbin.earth

    egg🫥irl

    I feel like my facial anatomy is just destined to be masculine... even androgynous is out of reach. I also need to go to a dentist.

    While I did this I gave myself this kinda curly wavy hair and a darker hair color and I really like that. But I look like my ex like that... especially with my teeth the way they are....

    Do it

  • (the really sucky part now is, I now have three names for myself, the only place I'm currently going by Hailey is here... and I never finished rolling out Hal, so it's kinda breaking my brain that now I want to kinda clean all that up. Domain names, usernames, display names... school is the only IRL place I managed to go by Hal, everyone else knows me by my birthname... I'm holding back on tangenting on the logistics of social name changing & of course coming out.....)

  • Do it

  • I had actually agonized over a new male name before, and eventually I settled on Hal... and it didn't take long before the idea of a Hailey appeared... I couldn't shake the name so it ended up sticking to an idea of an idealized partner. So when I found out I'm trans, it was only natural to pick Hailey.

    Now, there are multiple equally valid (and a few invalid) ways to spell it so that was just kinda vibes

  • I think part of it is that people just moved right back to the red site, just as they were counting on us doing. I never did, and now I feel kinda left in the dust for it, since that's where these wonderful communities are.

    I'm glad there's at least something here for me. I just wish I were creative or funny enough to contribute :(

  • this is a privately-owned space on the internet, not a hall of Congress. "Freedom of speech" literally does not exist here.

    There are also some "opinions" which simply should not be tolerated; see the Paradox of Tolerance.

  • egg_irl

  • god I'm gonna be stuck living here for another few years, at least... cause I need to finish (community) college before I can get a "good paying job" that might, possibly, pay enough to survive off of...

  • At least in the US, it also includes name (to identify you with; seems obvious) and sex (???). I think it also includes home address, also for identity, but I haven't actually seen a birth certificate in years so I don't remember

  • egg_irl

  • it's been like, a week since the egg cracked, and i'm already trying to do voice stuff... I can at least excuse it as learning a new voice trick because I've long liked to do cool, new stuff with my voice...