I mean, what's the point of the question?

Even if OP's original premise might not be 'accurate,' OP's question generated a decent discussion. if that's not the point of forums and subforums, idk what else is.

Seek therapy. Your responses are neither helpful nor witty. If anything, you're a menace to humanity, your family, your 'friends' (if you had any), and general society around you. I feel sorry for anyone who has to interact with you on a regular basis. Your mother would be ashamed of you.

I hope you become a better person.

Postgres.

Also using redis, did all the typical perf checks listed on NC site etc.

My NC instance runs on a 24GB RAM, 4 CPU Ampere A1 host(Oracle), and still struggles. YMMV.

And it struggles as a photo backup host an i5-7xxx and 16GB RAM at home.

It's not absurdly slow, it's just...irritating sometimes.

Reactive Resume has helped people land jobs at these great companies

Has it now

While working out this morning, I heard a new word in a song, took me 5 seconds to stop and document that

Not to be a party pooper but I guarantee you it took longer than 5s lol.

I roll GTD concepts into it with @contexts and whatnot, so I've even combined all other knowledge management systems into trilium.

Can you clarify on this? I use GTD with nextcloud calendar/tasks.

The only thing I hate about Audiobookshelf is that I cannot control my cast device's volumes with the host device.

Usually when you're casting something, changing my phone's volume would change my speaker's volume. With audiobookshelf, I cannto do that.

Irks me a lot.

otherwise, yeah, Audiobookshelf is pretty great.

"Just download an YT downloader application" is not what OP was asking for.

I too have been looking for a centralized YT-DLP frontend that I can use to either 1. Store vids on my server 2. Give me (or more importantly, my wife) a prompt to download them.