Effect of a gravity assist on person, or whatever, in spaceship

There is missing context for the scene from The Expanse. Alex (the pilot) gets the computer to plot a course using manoeuvring thrusters only, so it is not just a series of gravity assists, there is also manoeuvring to adjust course.

I would say that one of two things (or both) is happening:

1. Alex is leaning because of the manoeuvring thrusters firing
2. He is leaning like someone trying to steer harder in a video game.

Also, he drinks a fair few beers while hiding behind Cyllene before this, so that would support 2 I think.

you're right, you're still falling with your ship, the gravity well is just different

in clip you provided Kamal is IMO just leaning by himself like people do when playing racing games, THIS IS THE WAY

You're correct in that he would not feel anything from the assist itself, as the spacecraft is accelerating the same amount as him. However, the key here is that he appears to be dramatically altering his attitude with some kind of RCS thrusters. There's not much use to that unless he's firing the main engine, but I'm assuming no main engines were used as they don't appear to ignite.

The leaning appears to be in response to attitude corrections, and is pretty accurate given the rate of rotation here. The way he's bracing only makes sense in gravity, so I'll assume the ship has an AG field (like most standard sci-fi ships).

The only thing that appears to be off its the acceleration at the end ...

It depends on how strong the gravity source is and how close you get to it. The strength of gravity falls off with distance following the inverse-square law, so different parts of your spaceship can feel different amounts of force acting on them during the manoeuvre. In the clip, there's a large but weak source of gravity (a moon), so I don't know how much force the pilot's going to feel - probably less than he feels because the ship is rotating and generating centrifugal force.

But we've got a pretty good example of what I'm talking about over our heads - Earth's moon is in orbit around us. You could think of that as a gravitational assist manoeuvre that never ends because the moon didn't gain enough speed to break free of Earth's gravity. Over a time scale of billions of years, the difference between the gravitational force exerted on the near side and the far side is causing the moon's rotation to slow down.

For a fictional example that makes it clearer, Larry Niven wrote a story in 1968 titled "There Is A Tide" in which a pilot has a close encounter with a neutron star.

No,

It is purely for dramatic effect.

In a gravity assist ( to be technical using a hyperbolic orbit of a large mass to change direction and gain velocity) the object is still following the curvature of space time. So the change in direction is affecting all particles in the object at the same time.

It is the same as people in the ISS orbiting the earth, they do not have to lean in the curve as they are following the curvature in spacetime around the planet. The only difference is one is a hyperbolic orbit (gravity assist) while the other is a parabolic elliptical orbit (ISS)

The Expanse is not a realistic show. I like hard sci-fi, keep hearing the Expanse is ultra-realistic (no ftl, no anti-grav), so I open up a random clip to check it out and what's the very first thing I see? A guy in a spacesuit standing on a catwalk outside a spaceship under main engine power. Ok, constant 1G acceleration from a magic engine, so far so good... That's what sci-fi is supposed to be: change one magic thing and one thing only and show the consequences! But then the guy starts space-welding something, and the torch is creating puffs of smoke that effortlessly FLOAT UPWARDS. Whaaat? Ok, I'd understand if the show has to stay within a reasonable budget and can't afford to film inside a vacuum chamber, but the fucking puffs are already CGI! The lazy no-physics-education artist has failed to seize the one opportunity to show something exotic about living in space: to animate the puffs spreading outward without impedance while falling to the ground.

I'm glad I didn't watch the show. If I had seen this clip of the guy zooming along from moon to moon in seconds while leaning into the gravity-assist turns, I would have had an aneurysm.

Gravity is why people lean into turns in the first place.

Those molecules have velocity that's taking them past whatever body they're using for a gravity assist. The gravity of that body grabs the vessel and begins to pull it in, being pulled closer to the body generating that acceleration and not simply passing by. The previous vector doesn't just disappear. All that matters still wants to continue in that direction of travel, including the people. The result is people having to lean into the arc of the assist because their own momentum is still changing to the new vector.

In short. Inertia is a bitch

Most space fiction is science fantasy not science fiction. Made up things like gravity assist are essentially as rational as if they were casting a gravity spell. There's nothing useful in rationalizing the fiction about how a gravity spell makes you lean. It just looks cool and sells the emotion and experience to the audience.