This is the way. I found I was getting annoyed every time I would feel the buzz of a notification, almost to the point I was ready to throw my phone in a toilet. I ended up disabling notifications for everything but work related stuff, and even that I made sure only pings me during the work hours.
Yeah I've got 141 messages waiting on my lemmy account that I can't be bothered to clear
I feel obligated to respond to most if not all of them because of lemmy's need for content, and I just don't wanna. But I also don't want to just clear them entirely. Some are dating back multiple months...
Day 68. @empireOfLove still hasn't replied to the "deez nutz" joke I replied with on c/memes. Morale is low and despair is welling but a tiny sliver of hope remains. Will today be the day that @empireOfLove comes through?
I try to keep up with my lemmy inbox throughout the day, but I post a lot and it really piles up. Side note- I've noticed an uptick in comment activity lately too. The last couple of mornings, I've woken up to 100+ messages. That used to be maybe 35-40.
FWIW the number of Active Users on Lemmy + KBin has levelled off recently:
https://fedidb.org/current-events/threadiverse
(i.e. maybe we've stopped losing users from the summer influx? Or maybe lurkers are now commenting more?)
There's a few others, such as GitHub pull requests, play store/fdroid updates, bank payment notifications, snapchat (for those that use that, reemember to turn of useless non-notifications). But for the most part, I agree. Turn em off