Keris's situation

Hi everyone,

This is an update regarding Keris (also known as RiikkaTheIcePrincess). Many of you already know of the situation, but if you do not, go check out her posts on this community.

TL;DR Keris is and has been in an abusive situation with their parents in rural Oklahoma. They gave her a seven day eviction notice, and now they have to leave. They are trans, neurodivergent, and have no place to go.

Keris is in desperate need of a place to stay in Minneapolis. She has gotten their ticket and is set to arrive tomorrow at 4:20pm in Minneapolis. The shelters there are night-only, and are not a good fit due to a variety of factors.

If there is ANYONE who can host Keris in Minneapolis for even a couple of days that would be a huge help. They are in a very bad spot right now and could really, really use your help. If you know someone who could host, that works too.

Thank you for your consideration.

Edit 1: if anybody also knows of any programs in Minneapolis that can help get Keris less temporary housing and/or a job that would also be very helpful.

Edit 2: Keris has found someone to stay with in about two and a half weeks. For now, they are going to try and stay in a cheap hotel. Thank you to everyone who came together to support Keris in her time of need. Please keep sending support and kind words their way. Their PayPal is LuxStellae@gmail.com for those who have asked.

I love y'all 🫂

Edit 3: It sounds like the place she was gonna stay in a couple of weeks fell through. They did make it to Minneapolis okay and are staying in a hotel. Keris still needs some kind of living arrangement (and friends).

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Do they have a PayPal / Venmo / anything else that we can donate to directly? I don’t live anywhere near there, but I would love to donate towards them being able to stay in a hotel.

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- Keris does have PayPal. That's very generous of you. I'll ask them about their details real quick.
  
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  I too can chip in some cash (when I get paid tomorrow).
  
  I've got nothing to offer job wise unfortunately, I have no idea how ive made it this far and all my IT experience is DoD.
  
  they want multiple (3 I think) different references kinds of references and information for your entire immediate family (parents, siblings, children) to get clearance, and that can take a couple months at the best of times, usually much longer. You CAN put in notes on clearance paperwork that a family member is estranged but idk if it matters.
  
  Comptia Sec+ cert gets most people in the door tho, and I get an entry level help desk contractor job at about $50K with just that and high school diploma. I've heard much the same about comptia Network+
  
  Powershell or comparable transferable scripting skills are handy too (I am VERY new to powershell in my opinion but somehow others think otherwise)
  
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- Sorry for the delay. It's LuxStellae@gmail.com
  
  💜
  
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  Thank you. I hope they are somewhere safe tonight.
  
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I may have some resources, and I'm in the process of contacting others here in the Twin Cities who may be able to help. OutFront MN may have resources too, also MTHC may be worth reaching out to. Queer Housing Exchange on Facebook can help you find a safe place to rent once you get the job lined up. I'm going to see what else I can find, I've got friends connected to the anarchist community here who may also be able to help. I live in Minneapolis, but I don't want to give out more info publicly. Keris, please contact me on matrix chat if you can. I'm @alligatorblizzard:matrix.org on there, or we can find some other way to communicate if you don't use matrix.

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- I just remembered, if you have an address you can use temporarily, figure out how to sign up/requirements for Medicaid ASAP (it seems like as soon as you have some kind of physical residence or employment established, and I may be able to help with that, you're considered a resident, IANAL but OutFront has lots of those and can probably answer that), and whatever else you can sign up for - once that happens you can sign up for $1 transit rides and likely other useful stuff.
  
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  This is about the most extensive resource directory I've ever found, and it's pretty overwhelming. I think I just bookmarked it and didn't really read through it, but I really should. Saint Paul is also going to be easily accessible too so look there as well.
  
  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1-1Z7KYtcjrxwvMOy3Luwt6ICnCpt5sgNTrYGPZtW_yk
  
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- Thank you for this! I will pass it along to them.
  
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I am in the twin cities.

I too, am homeless, I live in my car though.

How old is this person? If she is under 25-26, there are considerably more resources available to her, but there are still some for those who aren't. What kind of luggage are we talking?

I could likely, at the very least, meet her at the airport and take her to one of the shelters as well as get her started on resources. I'll even buy her dinner.

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Maybe we should make a queer or trans support community.

Edit: I have a low key plan running with a friend on this. If it keeps growing we'll definitely be posting.

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- That's not a bad idea.
  
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  There's been chatter about the same on a post under Transfem
  
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- Was about to say that myself. If I make it through this and get any resources of my own I'll be looking to do some supporting myself. Even if I can just figure out something useful about navigating this whole mess-ass process... I damn sure don't want anycritter else having to go through all' this crap I'm only even partway into.
  
  Maybe I'll at least have some insight useful to whatever species of alien I am. Idunno whether all' the resources are uniquely unsuited to me or I'm uniquely unsuited to them or what else, but every single thing is too vague, too specific (to somebody else, usually!), or scarier than not knowing. Don't think I've seen a coherent guide of any kind. If not something unifying then a "how to start" could be good. And a place where people know how to do this could be amazing and invaluable.
  
  ... Of course, spontaneous, desperate escapes aren't all of the things with which people may need support 😅 I still don't know how to provide support for anything but (some) tech, though, and this looks like it's my thing at the moment and hopefully I'll learn something from it that others can use.
  
  I'll try to stop ramble-yapping now. Maybe I'll go grab that bagel I've been wanting. I don't actually like bagels, though, so maybe not. Gotta rush up a shower first. Hair's too facey- waitno, wrong wordsing there. Face's too hairy. That's the one.
  
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  So how was the bagel?
  
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Wait Oklahoma to Mlps?

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- Yup
  
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Hey, I don't think enough people are going to see the update without another comment to bump it up in the Active sorting. Maybe there should also be another post?

I'm really worried, but I'm too far away to help. I really hope someone can.

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- That's a good point. I'll make a post later today about it.
  
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I can for a couple of blowjobs

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I got a room for 3 blow jobs

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