Just put the card in directly on random websites.
I'm not joking - if you follow your existing "should I even be using this site anyway?" signs, it's going to typically be fine (in 2024!) to use your debit card there.
(Edit: To be clear, things have changed. Time travelers from the past should absolutely not follow this advice back in 2002!)
And when something does go wrong, you'll get better support from your credit union than PayPal would. (You don't still use a bank like a sucker, right...?!)
The worst case, usually, is they reverse the fraud and issue a new card to prevent further fraud.
So I guess it's a few things:
- Get a credit union, rather than a bank.
- Choose one or two of debit (edit: or credit) cards for all online use. Life is simpler when fraud does occur, if I have another card that still works for gas and groceries.
- Use the debit card directly, online, with any trusted site. There's no need for PayPal to exist anymore.
Many years ago, PayPal's innovation was treating people who shop online like actual people. The rest of the world has caught up, while PayPal lost sight of that.
Source: I worked in FinTech. It's amazing how bad your current options are, but it tends to work out, anyway. There's an extremely ethical and detail-oriented army of women named Karen, behind the scenes, looking out for you.
Edit: And as far as I can tell, not one of the extremely ethical and detail oriented women named Karen works for PayPal. Big tech companies rarely successfully keep that kind of no-nonsense-tolerated top talent.