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[!No longer indecisive] I (23M) am indecisive about maintaining a relationship with my partner (22F)
  • You're setting yourself on fire to keep her warm. You both agree she needs help, which is great, but she's doing nothing beyond that, which is not great. On top of that, I'm seeing a lot of manipulation. She accuses you of trying to manipulate her into feeling guilty, which is literally what she is doing to you. This is not a healthy relationship; a good partnership will build both parties up. She needs to work on herself, alone, before you continue any sort of relationship with her. You need an exit strategy before she affects your health any further.

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    Why the White House is letting McCarthy flail
  • Because then they can scream about open borders knowing that their base is either too dumb to know or doesn't want to know the truth.

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    Breaking news: Millennial and GenZ women have standards
  • Turning point USA is Charlie Kirk's (I think) organization. It's your typical right-wing "you're anti-capitalist, yet you live in a capitalist society. Curious."

    Toilet paper USA is that format, but with Charlie Kirk's head subtly photoshopped (maybe).

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    Pope says 'backward' US conservatives replaced faith with ideology
  • I would hope they recognize the Big Bang theory, given that the idea was first put forward by a Jesuit.

    But seriously, a lot of people don't really get how big the switch from Latin was. My dad attended church pre- and post-Vatican II and said that so many people complained loudly that we'd no longer have mass in a dead language. I guess the Liturgy of the Eucharist used to be done with the priest facing away from the congregation and a lot of people also complained when it was done facing the congregation. God forbid the plebes feel like participants in their own religion.

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    Top tier medical advice.
  • Yikes! I had no idea about the immunoglobulin. It's better than the alternative, but I hope you never have to go through that again.

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    What do do when you’re done
  • Block it. There are a number of ways, but I soak mine for a couple hours, then pin it to blocking boards. Well, actually, they're foam alphabet blocks, but the result is the same. Just make sure you use stainless steel pins so you don't damage your project with rust.

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    Yellowstone visitor charged after going off trail in thermal area and burning himself
  • They act like Yellowstone and other areas are just an extension of Disney World: the animals are tame and nothing bad will happen to you, otherwise why would they just let people in to wander around?

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    Top tier medical advice.
  • According to the CDC, it's four doses, preferably in the arm, over a two week period. I think I remember reading about someone who worked at a rescue or rehab that had to get several shots in the shin, around the bite site, but I don't remember why.

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    Hexbear federation megathread
  • They're called tankies after the people who supported Soviet tanks crushing any kind of revolt in Hungary and Czechoslovakia. They think that all the negative stuff about Russia, et al. is just Western propaganda. Most leftists, including me, want nothing to do with them.

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    What are you reading? (August 2023)
  • Definitely take a break! That's about the spot where most people struggle to get through. Take your time; there's a lot of setup, but the pacing is not great.

    Also, I think book 8 is The One Without Mat, so it took me forever to get through it.

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    Why do we not eat pig or cow?
  • We do have "poultry" as a catch-all for domestic birds. Not exactly the same as beef/cow, but definitely has a Norman connection.

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    I'm being harassed by mosquitoes, how do i kill them all?
  • Normally, I would recommend citronella, either the grass or the candles, but I believe it is toxic to dogs.

    I believe lavender, catnip and basil are safe, but they're all mints and may try to take over your garden or yard. They all grow very well in pots though.

    You can also try setting a trap. Put out some soapy water. The females are the ones biting you and they need water to lay eggs. They'll fall in the water and the soap prevents them from escaping. I haven't actually tried this with mosquitos, just other pests, but I have friends who swear by it.

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