11 mo. ago • 95%

I would so pay to watch this

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At the risk of sounding bigoted, what are he/him lesbians? And why isn't that just being gay?

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- You're thinking that it's AMAB female-identifying lesbians. There's AFAB lesbians that prefer he/him pronouns, but prefer the butch/femme lesbian experience. Or a combination or other stuff too.
  
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  Man, I never understood the need to microlabel yourself. Just seems weird.
  
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  AMAB? AFAB?
  
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  In your example, is the distinction that you used the word "prefer" for pronouns? So the hypothetical couple are both AFAB and identify as homosexual women but enjoy being called by male pronouns?
  
  No hate intended, just trying to educate myself.
  
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  No, I was thinking the latter - the former example with at least one MtF partner should just be lesbians, because they both identify as female, no?
  
  But if they're identifying as a guy, but still identifying as lesbian, doesn't that kind of dilute the fact that they're identifying as a guy?
  
  Taking that gender identity at face value, shouldn't any relationship under it identify as gay/straight (dependent on which partner(s) are FtM)?
  
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- Just a person who is a part of the lesbian community but uses he/him pronouns.
  
  Specifically people who we would now describe as transmen (assigned female at birth but identify as male) who are attracted to women (or other transmen) who historical have been considered dykes/lesbians/butches/whatever and thus were part of the lesbian community. A 50 year old person as described above who has always been part of the lesbian community but prefers he/him pronouns shouldn't be excluded now but also shouldn't have to use different pronouns to be part of it, thus he/him lesbian.
  
  Pretty much just a queer history fun fact that happens to be actual people alive today.
  
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  Ah, so you would consider that labelling as a kind of carveout for those who would likely have identified as transmen in our current culture, but are so embedded into lesbian culture that it's kinda hard to dissociate with it despite the new identify?
  
  Though I will ask, to identify as a guy but still identify as a lesbian, doesn't that kind of dilute the aspect of identifying as a guy - essentially being one foot out and one foot in?
  I don't mean to offend, I'm just not fully understanding it.
  
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  This is so confusing. Are their partners lesbian? Lesbians like girls, but these people identify as boys. So only straight women would date them, except they have female tackle, so straight women won't date them, only lesbians partners will do. But lesbians like she/her so we are back to square one. Who dates them?
  
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  who are attracted to women (or other transmen)
  
  If they are lesbians, shouldn't the be attracted to transwomen rather than transmen?
  
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- Hold on, gotta cook dinner and invite pop pop or it just won't be worth the time to explain.
  
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- I'm trans and I don't get it either.
  
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Here, have a switch.

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- That's a Cisco... There is NO way that is getting there by Christmas...
  
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  It's actually Cisgo, they can get it in 4-6 weeks from AliExpress.
  
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- How expensive is it? Enterprise shit surely is expensive.
  
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  More than a Nintendo switch probably, but the Cisco switch has 16 ethernet ports!
  
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Can I be the switch they get for Christmas 👉👈

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- take em away to horny jail boys
  
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  🫡👮‍♂️🏏
  
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I really need help understanding this text:

tm?

w = with?

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- Tm = tomorrow W = with
  
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- I had to go back to find tm and w because my brain just filled it in.
  
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- tm = tomorrow
  
  w = with
  
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- tm = trademark
  
  w = with
  
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  w = width
  
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- Happy it's not just me.
  
  Who knew 25 was old lmfao
  
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Plot twist, pop pop already knew but then forgot about it.

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Guys: "I am in lesbians with you. ;) haha"

Afab He/Him Lesbians: exist

Guys: wait no you can't do that it's a joke

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He'll forget anyways

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YO YO YO YO YO! POP POP!

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