It's the quantity. And also, by the time you've filled a cup of spit, it has cooled and dried a bit, maybe even breaking itself down, resulting in an increased viscousity, giving it a very unpleasant mouthfeel.
I feel the same way about cum that isn't directly from the "tap." Somehow it's fine from the source, but you put it in a shot glass and suddenly it's disgusting.
Same reason you wear your socks the whole day but once you remove them they become eww. Human brain is weird in that regard. Probably has evolutionary reasons but from an entirely rational POV it's weird.
I had some oral mucositis that caused some excessive saliva production. There was one time I accidentally swallowed a mouthful of it, it immediately caused me to vomit.
Fluids that exit the body is like this. Only exception is blood from your own kin and tears.
Anything else gets very dirty once out of body. Sweat, urine, vomit etc
Spit in a cup and drink it and watch how your peers react.
I think on this it would more mean, if you had to fill a cup with your saliva only, then drink it, there would be aversion to do so. However if it stays inside your mouth the whole time as regular saliva then the aversion wouldn't be there.
The question comes down to, why the sudden aversion to drinking it?
I think it's mostly psychological, but if I had a cup of my own spit, it wouldn't last very long, it would quickly start to break down. And that would be unpleasant.
So I think as much spit as I could fit into a cup in 15 minutes sure I could drink that no problem. Any longer than that and then you start having to worry about the breakdown and that's going to change the flavor.
You are swallowing that saliva during the day. Usually we make 0.5 and 1.5 liters daily (for us measurements 2 to 4.2 cups). And that needs to go somewhere. And it is very important part of our oral hygiene too.