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Good to exercise at home instead of gym?

So since the last 2 days, I've been building the courage up to start doing exercises. I'm starting with weights that were just collecting dust so thought "hell why not, never too late to start getting fit"

Now I'm being realistic knowing that starting off you're not gonna be shredded like a wrestler but I'm just tryna get leaner and fitter body wise.

Is it reasonable for absolute novices to never go to the gym for their exercise and fitness journey? I feel like would be saving some dosh even though I could be missing on some equipment they use there.

A penny for your thoughts?

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  • You never need to go to a gym to get fit. It could help, for some people, but it is not a necessity by any means!

    You don't even need weights or equipment; calisthenics are valid.

  • First off - I'm excited for you!! Your future self will be so fucking grateful.

    I absolutely think at home workouts are a fantastic starting point.

    I get the gym can be intimidating and if that stops you from working out then do something else.

    But major note is: what's your goal?

    • Lose weight?
    • Gain muscle?
    • Just be stronger?
    • Something else?

    If you are trying to lose weight, your biggest goal should just be more activity + calorie deficit. You can only do strength so often and while it will help you lose weight, it's way better to do strength + walking (or other easy cardio).

    I recently lost about 15 pounds in the last 6 ish months and I did it by getting around 10,000 steps per day and 1-2 strength training days per week, and being on a calorie deficit.

    If your goal is to gain muscle, then you can absolutely do that with minimal weights or just bodyweight at the beginning.

    Personally this got a little boring (if just a lot of reps and for me doesn't feel as fun as some of the gym equipment I use now).

    But above all: DON'T underestimate the dieting portion. Whether your goal is to gain muscle or lose weight, what you eat is half if not more of the equation.

    Happy to share more details but didn't want to type a book without knowing what you need :)

    Good luck!!

    • Ideally I just wanna lose my gut, I've already started cut back on alcohol and ONLY take two sweet treats in my lunch for work.

      Oh and skipping the elevator and rather go up two levels of stairs to my workplace, I find that more rewarding as I think that'll contribute.

      Muscle gain wise, I'm starting off with bicep curls and over head press, nothing crazy.

      I think I plan to lose the gut and flatten it before I do any sit ups lol.

      Thank you for your message.

      • Totally feel that! Also one thing I learned is that a lot of my "gut" was actually bloat/gas built up. Like I noticed as soon as I started being more active I slimmed up faster than I should be able to, but I think my digestive system just did better.

        Also something I forgot to note - get good sleep! I know it can be hard but getting at least 7+ hours of solid sleep every night does wonders for your body.

        The only thing I think you might want to look into is doing compound movements (like squats, bench press, rows) instead of isolated movements like bicept curls. These activate a lot more muscle and overall help towards your goal of fat loss. You don't need to work abs individually either - if you are doing squats and other compound movement with correct form, you'll be hitting the too.

        Of course not trying to tell you how to live your life! But this is what I've seen echoed from many different fitness resources and chatgpt. :)

      • I just wanna lose my gut

        The most critical part of losing weight is counting the calories of what you eat, so you know exactly what you have to do to lose the weight. One pound of body fat is equivalent to 3500 calories, so if you can manage to eat at a 500-calories-per-day deficit you will lose one pound per week (most people lose scale weight at a faster rate than this when they first start dieting, but this is water weight loss and won't be maintained in the long term).

        Will drinking less alcohol and fewer sweet treats put you into a 500 calorie daily deficit? There's no way to know unless you start recording the calories of everything you eat on a daily basis.

  • I've been working out at home since the late '70s/early '80s, as I found gyms in that era seriously woman-unfriendly. I splurged for a simple bench, a barbell/dumbbell set, a cheap area rug and a book by Arnold Schwarzenegger on workouts for women. At my peak, I was pressing 130% of my body weight, and able to bring my head down to my knees without fracturing a vertebra. Nowadays, my aim is to be able to carry my own groceries 9 blocks home, chase the cat up the stairs and down the hall when it's time for his meds, and defend my wallet as needed.

    I prefer this. It allows me to focus, protects me from dorks who think I need their advice or should surrender the machine I'm on because they need it, saves $75-100 a year in membership fees, the cost of 'proper' gym clothes, the time and money travelling and I can work out when it fits into my day. I recommend it, but you will need a level of self-discipline and a daily routine that works for you. Don't just buy the weights and start flinging them around: find a good book or two/a couple of websites and learn about basic nutrition needs, the best times for exercising, and why you need to cycle your exercises and take a day off regularly.

    Don't be discouraged if it takes a while to get into it, and see results. If you miss some time, just go back to it when you can. I can't explain how good it feels every day, being fit, but it is worth it!

    • I built my physique over 10 years in a gym, but I've kept it with heavy handweights and a collapsible bench in my home gym. Anything's possible as long as you know what you want, know what works for you, are willing to do the work.

  • The best form of exercise for you is the form that you actually do consistently week after week. If this means working out at home, then that's fine. Given that you're not trying to break any records, this might just be fine for you.

    I've done many different forms of working throughout the years, one of which was to work out at home/local outdoor gym. I did this because there were no gyms at what I considered to be a reasonable distance from home, and I considered that to be too much of an impediment to actually get the work done consistently.

    I did get stronger from it, and used it as a part of losing weight, which I wanted on account of being overweight at that time.

    I've since stopped doing that routine and moved to lifting weights at a gym, which I considered attainable since I moved to a place with gyms very close by. I did this because working out at home had basically reached a plateau as far as strength was concerned - lifting weights at a gym will get you stronger at a faster pace.

    I think checking out the stuff that Hybrid Calisthenics does could be worthwhile for you. Do some stuff at home for now if that feels better for you, and then evaluate later on if it keeps working for you.

  • When it comes to exercise the struggle isn't doing it, it's finding a routine that works for you. That's the key, figuring out something you can do and make a habit of it so it becomes routine, like brushing your teeth.

    I bought a collapsible bench and hand weights in late 2024 so I could cut the gym membership from my budget, and I've been able to maintain my usual habit of lifting 3-4 times a week. The added benefit is that it's nice not to have to deal with other people or wait for equipment. You can learn better ways to work out from professionals for free on Youtube, and you can add equipment to your home gym over time.

    It's definitely reasonable to be new and never go to a gym.

  • I started with just running outside and some workouts to follow along to on YouTube.

    Growingananans channel has some great bodyweight exercises which you can add weights to, and some are with weights as well. There are a lot of others as well. Lots of channels also show modifications for beginners that make the exercises easier until the beginner develops the stamina/muscle to do the harder versions.

    I spent a year and a half using weights and you tube exercise videos when I didn't have access to a gym. My apartment complex has a gym included in rent now so I may add well get my money's use out of it, but even then I still use YouTube exercises.

    I also really like Paula B's exercises even though they're for older women and I'm not quite there yet. Still her constant movement still gets my heart rate up despite them being more moderate workouts. They're also easy to modify to more heavy/high intensity by doubleing the speed you do them or adding weights, so she's great to begin with and even grow with. Grow with Jo (Gro with Jo?) Is also also someone great to begin with and and intensity to when you are ready.

  • Kettlebells! Kettlebells are a great tool to have for home workouts. You might want to start with a lighter one--even if you've worked out some, you can still wear yourself out with even a 35 lb. kettlebell.

  • You definitely can start this way. When I started, I got some help from a physical therapist--I had really messed up my back, and in addition to helping with the acute issue, they also selected a set of exercises and numbers of reps for me that I could do at home, and that was a great starting point for my exercise routine. It was pretty short and focused, so it was easy to find time to do it every day, and the practice of keeping at it was really helpful. My health insurance covered most of the cost of the physical therapist; I had to pay a copay, but even then it was just a couple times a week for maybe two months, so not exorbitant. Insurance is generally willing to help with this stuff for a little while because they know that if your health improves, it's likely to reduce their future costs. So it's worth looking in to whether yours would help with something like that just to get yourself going. I don't think you need to have an acute problem to take advantage of that; I think having a specific goal for improvement is adequate. (They want measurable goals, like "I'd like to be able to jog five minutes without getting winded," or that sort of thing. I believe mine was "I'd like to be able to spend a day out walking around a garden with my family without being laid up the next day by my back." Which reflects where I was at the time. But, y'know, anything that reflects where you currently are, and something that you might be able to achieve in a six-to-eight-week timeframe, is probably a good goal.)

    Doing that regularly also got me listening to my body, and that got me to gradually expand my routine--I eventually understood that some of my back issues were propagating up from hip issues, so now I work on those, and some of those are coming from limited ankle mobility, so I'm also working on that, and working on that has got me doing "goblin squats" that has gotten me to stop thinking of dumbbells as something to avoid. I'm also getting closer to being able to do pull-ups; I got a pull-up bar because just hanging from a bar sometimes can really help with a bad back, but at some point I started thinking about how much more I enjoyed moving when I was a kid and took gymnastics classes, and back then I actually had the strength to do things like pull-ups. So now I can do some resistance-band assisted pull-ups, and hopefully in a year or two I'll be able to do the proper thing.

    Picturing enjoying movement is something that really motivates me, actually. Like, I used to enjoy biking and ultimate frisbee. I don't, now, but I think I might enjoy them again at some point. I think I might also enjoy parkour, if I can get into that kind of shape, but I recognize that may not be an achievable goal at this point. I had a kind of enthusiasm for brief bursts of very intense movement, like sprinting up a flight of stairs two at a time, or climbing up onto a loading dock in a single giant step.

    At this point I do a basic set of dumbbell weight exercises, squats and lunges, push ups, a back stretching and exercises routine, assisted pull-ups, and a walking/running aerobics routine. It's not a ton, but I'm really in vastly better shape than I was when I started a few years ago. I do have a handful of equipment--the dumbbells, a floor mat, a couple of foam rollers, an exercise ball (for trunk lifts, which are good for a weak lower back), a doorway pull-up bar, some resistance bands that I basically just use with the pull-up bar, and the biggest thing is an elliptical machine for when the weather is too bad to do the aerobics outside. There are ways to do it without a machine, like jogging in place or doing rapid shallow squats, but the machine is kind of nice--it's hard to explain, but it really helps to have the exercise take place in its own little isolated space, or even just in its own mental space. I actually also have a little lighted sign that I made (it's a recreation of the neon sign for an exterminator's in my home town that always tickled my fancy back then--it's got a giant neon rat in the middle) and I like to turn that on in my room specifically while I do my exercises there (everything other than the aerobics and pull ups), just because it kind of marks out the distinction of exercise time. It helps make it a ritual, and that helps make it a habit. As I say, hard to explain, but it feels like it matters.

    I will say, this routine has also helped me lose some weight. I'm down about 45 lbs (~22kg) from this time last year. That's mainly down to diet changes, but I did ramp up my exercising while doing this to be sure that I was losing fat rather than just losing muscle. I'm still a lot heavier than I'd like, but I'm definitely proud of how far I've come. I'm improving in other measures, too, like my resting heart rate is down from around 100 to around 80, which, again, is not where I'd like to be, but represents movement in the right direction.

    So, I do think the physical therapist helped a lot with getting me started, but most of my work I've done at home, and without too much in the way of equipment.

    Would I have done better, faster by going to a gym? I dunno. I definitely know that friction is a big factor. If it's hard to actually go do the thing, then it's easy to make excuses not to go do the thing; needing to actually travel to a gym definitely counts for that. There's kind of a balancing act in making my routine easy enough and pleasant enough that I'll actually do it, but also challenging enough that I'm still gradually improving. Sometimes I need to let myself slack off at something a little as an incentive do just do the thing. And sometimes once I'm actually doing the thing I don't need the slack after all.

    Bit of a rant, I guess. Sorry, it feels like so much of this stuff is, like, techniques for outwitting part of my own brain, and it feels like those are things other people might be able to use, but I'm not sure how transferable they really are. Hope it helps.

    Good luck with your journey! I know I'll need luck on mine.

  • Yeah I exercised with only my body weight for many years. I was pretty fit. Now I started going to the gym and one thing I discovered was that i never exercised certain muscles before. I had wide arms but small shoulders. This is because at home, you usually dont have all the equipment to exercise all parts of the body.

    This may be fine though. For me it was fine for many years. But now I wanted a larger upper body and that means shoulders and back and biceps.

  • I started with yoga and did it for over a year before I started going to the gym again. Fully doable

  • I think it depends on your preference. I worked out at the gym for many years before covid and after the pandemic I built a home gym with a power rack, barbell, adjustable dumbells, and cable machine. Biggest advantage of this is not having to share a rack with anyone. It was sometimes annoying to have to wait for equipment.

    What I'll say is that I really appreciated starting at the gym as I got to have access to every machine and workout equipment. This let me build a workout plan over years and get a good idea of what sort of equipment I would need to stay active. I also found it helpful to see what other people were doing at the gym. Some people clearly have no idea what they are doing, but seeing what other experienced people at the gym were doing gave me some great ideas of what to incorporate into my workouts.

    I also did have a personal trainer for 6 months and I highly recommend this, especially when you are new to working out. The biggest value is from having someone experienced give you tips and tricks on how to improve your form and workout safely. Especially as you get stronger and lift heavier weights. It's easy to lift something slightly wrong and really hurt yourself.

    Overall, I always enjoyed my time at the gym and it gave me the knowledge to built a great home gym.

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